I'm a female and she's a female.In the past she has had friends that do mean things to her out of Envy, cause she is really really pretty.She's mixed with white and black.Long curly hair and beautiful.She wonders why I have'nt showed any signs of jealousy.I can't tell her its because I want her, not hate her.I even had a weird dream of us making out.I don't want to loose her friendship and at the same time I don't want to keep my emotions hidden.what should i do?
2006-07-20 10:50:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
she's a lesbian and thinks i'm straight
2006-07-20 10:52:06 · update #1
She thinks i'm straight, yes i like guys.And our friendship has been for years so it would be weird if i told her my feeling.
2006-07-20 10:56:18 · update #2
I would'nt call myself a lesbian,I only like her.no other girl has ever crossed my mind to do anything with.
2006-07-20 10:58:50 · update #3
ive had that same prob since last october...i met her in like, september and then we got so close so fast that i got scared & have never told ehr how i felt. for a while in dec she thought she was bi, but then she thought she fell in love w/ this guy, who was an *** to her, and since then she has been straight. now its too late. i should have told her b4 i had nething to lose...or when she was interested in girls...i think that maybe she liked me and thats why she thought she was bi...cuz when i came out that i was bi, she started questioning again...i dunno. all i know is that its too late now. i cant tell her now. i fell in love w/ her, and i need to except the fact that i cant be with her. its just hard sometimes...especially when im hanging out w/ her & some guy who has her attention.
but ne wayz...since your friend is les, maybe you should atleast tell her that you like girls. maybe shed be cool with it. and maybe itll just work out. or just tell her you like her...b4 its much too late.
&&& ignor all those ignorant homophobic *********.e.s
2006-07-20 10:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I am really sick of all you wanna be lesbos.
Real life lesbians look like Roseanne Barr or Rosie O'Donnell. So I guess that is the case with you too.
More than likely your probably some 40 year old man living in his mom-ma's basement getting his kicks making up stories like this while abusing himself in a most disturbing way.
Stop trying to get attention and come here with some real problems.
BTW .... when you do - let me know so I can really make fun of you.
2006-07-20 10:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooh toughy, but if u don't want to break the friend relationship because she's cool, but it's not an honest relationship since you are not honest about your feelings. I know you don't want to blow it, but what if she didn't like you as a person once she found out? Do you still even want to hang out with her if she looks down on you as a person? I hope not. Anyway good luck, i hope everything turns out well.
2006-07-20 10:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wonders why you haven't showed any signs of jealousy because that is what she used to... why would you lose her friendship if you are always nice to her?
Tell her out right how you feel. If she is offended by what you tell her then she wasn't your friend to start with. Be honest.
2006-07-20 10:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to let her know that you are not straight and you do have feelings for her if she is a lesbian then it should be just fine. You and her can get together and have a good time.
2006-07-20 10:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all does she like girls too? well if she does then you should tell her, but if she doesn't then maybe you shouldnt say anything because that might freak her out and then she wouldnt want to talk to you anymore..................ok i didnt see that part where she is a lesbian and thinks your straight well in this case just tell her!!!
2006-07-20 10:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna be mean but , in the bible it says,all gay people will burn in the lake of fire.I don't want that to happen to no one , but sense you asked. If shes the same way you should tell her.
2006-07-20 10:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by candy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how can you be her friend and not tell her your a lesbian (assuming you are).
Just tell her you are a lesbian and that you're eyeing her (don't use exact words).
She'll probably be thrilled.
Good Luck!
2006-07-20 10:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by jayhind2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning God created ADAM & EVE......What part of this do you not understand? Talk about a crush! You and all gays CRUSH God ,everytime you sin like this..work on the CRUSHING you are doing towards God...He says that SAME relationships are UN-NATURAL...Don't ask us...ask God. You people are ILL!
2006-07-20 10:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by masya_art 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is also a lesbian. then theres nothing stopping you.
im sure she would be flattered.
maybe if you juss tell her how you feel about her.
if she's freaked out then she's immature.
it's a compliment to feel the way you do about her.
2006-07-20 10:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all thats pretty hott
second is she a les also
third spill a lil out at a time
fourth if she is ever drunk bring your dream to life
2006-07-20 10:54:12 · answer #11 · answered by scottiedo41990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋