life sucks and waiting for small good things is becoming worthless, so why? i cant think of a reason
2006-07-20 10:50:24 · 15 answers · asked by jeremy w 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Make it look like an accident. Insurance won't cover suicide
2006-07-20 10:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by tazinator5150 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeremy, I wish I could say there were lots of reasons why everything would turn out and you'd be glad or that I had wisdom enough to just turn your whole thought processing into a different one - but the bottom line is, I've been where you are, wondering why? I didn't think it was for a long time, and finally one day it came to me - I might not know exactly when or why or how, but there has to be a reason why I am here and that everything I go through between now and that point, will help me be the best at whatever that is - it didn't change my feelings over night or in an instant - as a matter of fact I had to tell myself that a 1000 x 1000 times a day - but with anti-depressants and searching for whatever that reason might be - I discovered time had passed and I had acquired some really great friends, talents, and I had something to offer others - it wasn't and isn't much - but it's all I've got - truly knowing the experiences and feelings that happen to people like you and me when we feel there is nothing more to go on for. So, now, that's what I do. I listen to you, I try to offer hope to you, a new perspective at what makes it important for you to see that someday you will be a me, helping someone else who doesn't see any reason for going on, but you will have learned by then there are some, and you may feel they are insignificant today, but then as time goes by and you've said a 1000 times over why? and you keep coming back to one person, me, Deanna, who thought you were worth reaching out to and saying I truly understand, you begin to realize that you can't break the circle or someone loses their life and then there's a gap, where there should be someone holding a hand. Jeremy, I can be contacted by several means and I hope you will choose one as opposed to choose not to keep on searching and seeking for a purpose - www.dandhunter.com.
2006-07-20 18:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by dph_40 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone was put here for a reason, it just takes some people longer than others to find their reason.
If you're unhappy, I've been there too, but if you work toward doing things that make you happy, then eventually you WILL find it.
Get away from any loser friends (or family) that bring you down and only hang out with people that are happy, positive, upbeat AND that have the same interests as you.
Most important of all; maintain a positive relationship with God.
You'll have to trust me on that. It's made a huge difference in not only my life, but many others that I know.
Keep your chin up and don't do anything dumb!
2006-07-20 18:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by guitarjoe1963 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never know what the idiots of the world will do. You need to keep tuning in to this comedy we call life. Seriously, talk to someone you feel close to about this. I bet they'll give you a good reason, like they love you or something.
2006-07-20 17:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know at times we all feel that way. There is always something to keep us going even if it seems paltry and small. The thing to do is to just be determined to carry on. You may just need to find yourself or perhaps change the things that are bothering you. If feeling like this persist talk to your doctor there is no reason to always feel down, weak and helpless.
2006-07-20 17:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life can seem trivial at times or just plain awful but one day it could improve. Hang in there just to see what good can happen. Good things happen to those who keep on trying, struggling, achieving, hoping, doing. If you give up, that is a bad thing.
2006-07-20 18:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by shestory1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats definately a selfish way of looking at life, maybe you bring happiness to someone even if you don't know it, if that doesn't work sex is the a good reason for living, go get some and see if you still have the same dilema
2006-07-20 17:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by Joe R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't just wait around for things to happen. do something! if life sucks for you right now do the one thing that makes you happy. take up new hobbies, play sports, whatever. it'll get better.
2006-07-20 17:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by A.I. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see what happens next...if it can't get worse it can only get better, right? Stop waiting for good stuff to happen. Make it happen. Like...go out, get a box of Betty Crocker mix and bake yourself a cake. Then share it with you care about, like maybe your mom or someone like that...You will see them light up...
And maybe seeking some therapy...to help...
2006-07-20 17:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because God loves you, and He put you here for a reason- maybe the reason is just not apparent to you yet, but if you stick around it will become more clear to you.
2006-07-20 17:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋