my ex gf always flirts with me and said she wants me,so i texted her and said i dont have sexual feelings towards her and that im gonna have space from her. so now whe is ignoring me why would she be like that?
2006-07-20 10:44:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hi Hun.....honey you hurt her badly..she still obviously still loves and fancy you.. and when you came out with your answer she probably thought whats the point......as you said you no longer want her
she obviously thought well i can't be just friends..... so this is the only way she knows how to break that connection with you...is by
ignoring you.......
honey if that was me, i would confess with out a doubt....but in a nice way...(not jump rite in there head first.. and say aload of crap what you didn't even mean) lol be Nice about it..do it with subtlety
GOD US LESBIAN ARE SO MUCH HARD WORK AT TIMES....
i hope it all works out for you both..take care
2006-07-20 23:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by power_of_me123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was boosting about her new boyfriend with the hope you would become all jealous and start howling for her to come back. She wanted you to do the chasing and play her games but when you didn't she became angry and frustrated and then starts wanting you back because you don't want to take her back after all you have been through. To be honest keep explaining exactly how you feel, do not boost about your new girlfriend and for ex's to do this, its the wrong thing weather she done it or not. Just don't play up to her, maybe ignore her for abit and then let things sort themselves out. give it a few months and then begin talking again and by then with all hope the anger and resentment will be over and you will be able to start fresh. xx good luck hunn xx
2016-03-27 01:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ignoring you because you turned her down, it's not nice to be rejected. But you haven't done anything wrong, you've split up so unless you both agreed to get back together or your still really good friends, you don't have a duty to look after her or boost her ego.
2006-07-20 10:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why did you lie and tell her you don't fancy her when you really do?
And why are you asking what is wrong with her>?
what is wrong with you? she feels you don't want her so why should she be friends with you?
If you don't fancy someone sexually.. it is an insult ..
and if you were together once before then why are you both still wanting each other?
2006-07-20 11:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text her go to her house and tell her how u feel and be HONEST. Its the best thing u can do right at this moment. She'll love that you care enough about her to tell it to her face.
2006-07-20 11:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Krazybi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might just be me, but i'd say you put your foot in it hun (no pun intended).
you said you weren't interested; that you wanted space - thats what she's given you ............. LOADS OF SPACE.
might be a good time to just pick up the phone and say "Sorry; i was being a silly cow the other day; i miss you, can we make up".
JJ.
2006-07-20 23:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by just_jen2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you told her that you didn't have sexual feelings. People who are rejected by another person tend to ingnore that person. OR ask her.
2006-07-20 10:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um,because you're sending her mixed messages,that's why. You can't say you don't want her if you do,then wonder why she won't talk to you,that's not very smart,actually. If you like her,then tell her you like her,geesh,enough already
2006-07-21 08:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....no one likes to be shot down even if it is a joke, im sure you didnt tell her that how about you text her back and be honest .
2006-07-20 10:51:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
helllo because you sent that text to her, id ignore you as well
2006-07-20 12:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋