I am a reformed cheater. I have been faithful to my man of 3 years. He is the first person I was ever loyal to. He also was a cheater, left his wife for me. I want to beleive that he is reformed too. What are the chances of this?
2006-07-20 10:07:29 · 23 answers · asked by April G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We grow up, we learn that cheating is pain to loved ones. Cheating is about attention seeking and sex, it has little to do with love, some people can cheat yet still love their partner, many cheaters become embroiled in an affair that they never really wanted and when their partner finds out, she/he usually pushes that unwanted fling into something more than it ever should have become. The right words at the right time can prevent cheaters from becoming ex-partners. Be adult, be honest, be what he wants, love instead of hate him for his mistakes and he will choose you, if the cheating ever starts again. If he does not, just smile, for you never lost anything worth keeping.
2006-07-21 16:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When circumstances are right, for whatever reason, you or your partner will cheat because, once a pattern of behavior is learned, the pathway for that behavior in the brain has been established and will come up as way to deal with the situation. Burned by a Cheater
2006-07-20 10:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, it's rare that a cheater stops cheating, so congrats to you. However, you know the signs, being a cheater once, and know what to look for if your man starts acting weird. I'd say stay faithful and trust him, but keep an eye on him, just in case. Be happy with him, but keep in mind that he did it once, and he can do it again.
2006-07-20 10:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe once a cheater, always a cheater. My ex-husband had a little something on the side when we were married and while with that woman, he already had another lined up and went from that one to the next one and so on.
2006-07-20 10:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying is, once a cheater always a cheater but I really can't say how true that is. People do change
2006-07-20 10:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that is a hard question for anyone to answer even if they THINK they know what their talking about, lol. Everyone is different, so dont go by what the next person did and their situation. This is something you can figure out for yourself, believe me......listening and getting advice from others who aren't in your situation can get frustrating and be confusing at times, good luck with that.I wish you the best.
2006-07-20 10:13:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so. Meet the right person. Grow up to the right age. It depends on his age mostly for you I think.
Are you concerned he is, because the signs are there or are you paranoid because of they way you got together? Learn the difference or you will piss yourself and him off daily.
2006-07-21 05:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty slim, sorry. You have to get to the root of the problems. They don't just go away. If you understand your reasons for cheating then you already know this.
2006-07-20 10:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that saying is true beleive me i know my man cheated on me with his ex-wife and now he is in jail for her and i am the only one who is still by his by side but you never know people do change but that is what i think
2006-07-20 10:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times but then if it a girl then no she will change a guy no guys will always be cheaters guys are jerks nothing can change it even if he says he is changed he isn't women change i changed but guys don't
2006-07-20 10:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by asdfghjkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋