Every guy I meet is such a jerk one minute he loves me then after I try to ask questions about him and get to know him he turns in to a jerk and accuses me of being with another guy or not really meaning what I say to him (not really every guy only the one that are interested in me the come on strong then when I give in to them about dating them they changed their minds )
2006-07-20 09:57:57 · 14 answers · asked by asdfghjkl; 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Id on't purposly look for jerks i want a nice guy who funny but instead get jerks who r funny
2006-07-20 10:01:57 · update #1
cuz im srry guys but thy r reatrds no not even they r returds!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-20 10:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by laangels12 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you act hoochie? If you give in easy, maybe they think that you do the same with other guys.
A lot of guys really are jerks but a lot of the time. You get back what you put out.
So, either you put out a easy worthless hoochie vibe or your just dating the wrong guys. You should trying dating different guys
2006-07-20 10:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've learned over time, that when a woman asks what we do for work too soon - they want to see how much money we've got.
When they ask who we're friends with in the room - they want to use us as stepping stones, to walk on us to get higher up to somebody else.
As to why they come up to you and then change their minds, that I don't know - I don't have enough data. Maybe they're practicing their techniques on talking to women. Are you ugly or something? - I don't say that to be mean, it's simply an unfortunate truth.
2006-07-20 10:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I surely have a similar challenge. have not found out if i'm drawn to jerks or they're drawn to me, yet i'm drained of kissing frogs! subsequently, i have given up on courting and placed on a wedding ceremony ring to maintain adult adult males at a distance. friends keep telling me there's a guy obtainable for me someplace, yet i'm no longer searching and now no longer care. i visit't get damage anymore, because i do not placed my heart obtainable to get stomped on. i tried courting web content, what a waste of money that changed into!
2016-10-15 00:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're meeting them in bars/clubs. Join a social activity or sports league. Meet them in an environment conducive to them meeting the real you, learning what you're about and exploring your intellect and personality. Not where you're colliding with sweaty bodies and having scream over the music to find out his name and what he does for a living.
2006-07-20 10:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Craig P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe for some reason you are attracted to jerks. Do you ever look for the nice guy, not the hot one.
2006-07-20 10:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by meisa777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change how and where you meet them. Also change what you offer them and how you react when they are around - dont give too much too soon - they will either fade into the dust (before the hurt and pain) or stick around :-)
Good luck and best wishes
2006-07-20 10:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are giant douches. There are some nice guys still out there, but most girls really don't want a nice guy.
2006-07-20 10:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're looking for jerks. Change what you're after, and you'll find something different.
2006-07-20 10:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must just be meeting the wrong guys, or they just aren't interested in you.
2006-07-20 10:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Snow_Chick2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you look for them and because you let them treat you this way
2006-07-20 10:02:01 · answer #11 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋