we splitted due to my posseviness.. after 6 months i greeted her on b'day. but no reply.. i still care for her

Answer 1

Let go. Obsession is NOT healthy. Consider it a lesson learned...or, learn from it if you haven't. Possessiveness is unhealthy and controlling. If you have low self-esteem, work on that. It is not anyone else's duty or obligation to play up to, or sooth, your self-esteem. You should come into a relationship complete...not seek someone to complete you. It isn't fair to that person.