See i am going out with this guy and he is really controlling and made me drop all my friends. :( and ireally dont want to be with him anymore but i have a bad feeling if i break up with him he will hurt my family. He has already threatened to kill my dad or get his cousins too. i just dont know what to do. im soo scared and unhappy and anymore all i think about is dieing or a family member dieing what do i do???
2006-07-20 09:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Isn't there some organization that is meant to serve and protect? Name is escaping me at the moment but I'm sure there is one...
2006-07-20 09:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by scruffy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is stay calm and pretend like everything's ok. Then, inform your family of this and have them discreetly go with you to the police. Document everything and see if you can get your family somewhere safe temporarilly. They have restraining orders and laws in place to protect you from scumbags like this guy. At least you seem to see that no man who truly loves you and cares for you would ever cause you harm or harm the people you love. Good luck, and go get that help today!
2006-07-20 16:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dial the po pos now.!that's a very serious situation ur in right there.get a restraining order and tell ur friens what ur telling us.and tell the police also and explain what u fear this guy can do to u and ur family.good luck! and act soon and be smart about everything u do in this situation.and y's ur avatar smilin if ur in this situation?u should be damn serious in every way.
2006-07-20 17:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by slims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your family and contact the police ASAP! Good Luck.
2006-07-20 16:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him...for goodness sake. If he tries to follow through with the threats then have him arrested. Be strong, and stand up for yourself.
2006-07-20 16:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words for ya honey:
RESTRAINING ORDER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No man that "loves" U would ever want U to give up Ur friends and certainly wouldn't THREATEN Ur family.....
Pick up the phone and dial 911.......Cause the guy needs to be checked!!!!
2006-07-20 16:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by HeartsOnFire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should live the rest of ur life as a gay woman
2006-07-20 16:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
2006-07-20 16:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋