i aint sure is she my friend or not?

Question

a girl i know we have been friend for about 2 yrs now and we got in a fight on IM and she pretended that it never the next day and now she talks about me behind my back and she says we are friends is she my friend or not

Answer 1

do you mean she's backstabbing you? if so, are you sure? or maybe she's just commenting something about you. please try to analyze the situation further.

Answer 2

If she is talking badly about you behind your back then I do not think that she is your friend. But let me just say this, there is a difference between talking behind someones back maliciously and venting. Everyone talks behind each others back. When you are angry you say she gets on my nerves she always does or does not do.....that is venting. You are not meaning to throw dirt on the persons name you just need to let something off of your chest. On the other hand if she is just out right bad mouthing you then that is wrong and she is not your friend. How do you know that she is talking about you behind your back? Did you hear her or did someone come back and tell you? You have to use your better judgment in this situation. Or you can send me a meassage with more detail and I will try to help you sort it out.

Answer 3

with friends like that who needs enemies?

Real friends talk about their differences and get past them and trust me... If she's going to talk about you behind your back, but be nice to your face.. you are better off w/out her so called friendship..

Answer 4

She's a friend, but not a good one.

Answer 5

no she isn't your friend she just acting like it ya should be friends in less ya talk it over

Answer 6

if she says yes, then yes.