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ok here it goes people....advice wil lreally help.i took a pregnecy test and it came out positive.After that i went to the doctor to find out how far in i was.i was 6weeks in.(HAD A MISSCARAGE BY THE WAY)so i called up my ex that stopped talking to me for some odd reason.told him he was an asshole.he asked why.i said do you relize i was 6 weeks pregnent with your child?!he said no.i said so tell me how do you feel?!He said he felt like ****.so tell me what did i do wrong?!

2006-07-20 09:30:23 · 17 answers · asked by holla_backgurl4u420 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

by the way i already have a kid.........and no im not married so i dunno wut the big deal is........

2006-07-20 09:42:08 · update #1

17 answers

Men are children, He scared. I'm a man I know

If you not expecting children, and one comes! He freaking scared.

give him a few days., He'll come around.

If not, make sure you know your rights and the mother.

2006-07-20 09:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mscott21 2 · 0 0

Ok first of all I'm not understanding why he stopped talking to you, was it before you told him you were pregnent? If it was then throwing the fact that you were pregnent in his face was wrong, if you had a miscarrage and did not tell him you are in the wrong, you should have told him you were pregnent when you first found out. But also you have to understand where he is coming from, maybe he would have been there for you, maybe he wanted a child, maybe he is hurt by the fact that you didnt tell him in the first place. So take all of this in consideration and then call him to see where his head is at and if you still have a chance with him if thats what you want. GOOD LUCK!

2006-07-20 09:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Doctor feel good 2 · 0 0

Men who have had vasectomies owe it to their potential partners to tell them up front during the initial discussion about sex and birth control. If they don't they are duplicitous (deceitful). If you know that you slept with no on else - then he is a liar. You said he has lied to you about other things. Sounds like a liar... Why would you want to have the baby to keep the liar? Whether you have the baby or not is your decision as he has opted out. It then becomes a personal and spiritual decision. I hope he leaves you alone and you choose wisely regarding the baby and you find a man that is not a liar. Good luck.

2016-03-27 01:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe it freaked him out. Men cant handle stress the way women can. If he didn't really love you could also be the reason he quit talking to you.
You are no longer pregnant and there is nothing holding you to him. Leave him alone. If you continue to call him and harass him you will look like a physco.

2006-07-20 09:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0 0

You say he is ur ex maybe he is seeing someone new and you were a mistake. He slipped up and slept with you and relized it after. Now want nothing to do with you. You should move on.

2006-07-20 09:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by looking 1 · 0 0

well most guys don't want to be fathers when they are on;y going out with their girlfriend you would have to talk to him about having a baby if he says yes and he make the move on you in bed then go ahead and do it but otherwise he isn't ready but wait a little then talk to him and see if he is okay with it

2006-07-20 09:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by girl1ebony 1 · 0 0

It almost sounds like you were "a booty call" to him, I'm sorry you wasted your time with this guy. Try to be more selective in the future and good luck with healing your mind and body!

2006-07-20 09:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0 0

Well you don't need him, but on the other hand you called him a asshole.Obviously he didn't know you were pregnant if you didn't know. Guys are not pychics. I am sure he didn't stop talking to you because he know you were pregnant.

2006-07-20 09:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Vthokie25 3 · 0 0

In his defense, he had no idea you were pregnant. I'm sorry you had to go through that. As for what did you do wrong, I'm not sure. Do you mean before you told him or after? I'm confused.

2006-07-20 09:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0 0

what did u go wrong? u opened ur legs and made a baby that he didn't want. leave him, he's a an a55.

word of advice: keep ur legs shut!

2006-07-20 09:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0 0

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