i don't have any real friends and all the other friends i have made my mom doesn't want me to be friends with anymore.
how can i make new ones when everybody thinks im a freak?
i have to make friends in order to find love in the world.
2006-07-20 09:11:26 · 14 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, don't put yourself down by calling yourself a freak. Remember that you have to love yourself in order to be capable of loving others. Get some positive affirmation books from the library - they do help. Then, you do need to make new friends - if mom doesn't approve of some of the one's she's met before, they may have really been looking like drug addicts, alcoholics, maybe were quite rude - had no manners, etc. Find yourself positive people to hang out with - there is nothing freaky about caring about a person's education, upbringing, and morals.
2006-07-20 09:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will make Friends when summers over and school starts again. Just relax until then, don't worry about it.
You and your friend are young you will be OK you two will look back and laugh at this latter on.
Your mom and the boys who call you corn dog girl are the most immature people in your story's.
Your mom is over reacting saying you cant be Lynsey's friend any more you will see her in school any ways.
And don't be bothered by being called corn dog girl that's not even that creative or anything it just makes them sound dumb which they are.
If you need help with name calling retaliation I will help you you can call the boys fungus butt now that's a good one.
Best wishes Position28 aka default name
Hope I cheered you up.
Just saying the word fungus butt makes me laugh.
Hope you laugh too.
2006-07-20 16:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by position28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mother dosent like your friends maybe she has a good reason, maybe she thinks they are a bad influence on you.
Why do you think everybody thinks your a freak?
Just be yourself, be nice and sociable walk up to people and ask how they are doing, how their day is going ect.....
You dont need friends to find love.
You sound very young you have a life time to find that special person dont be in a rush love will find you.
2006-07-20 16:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why do you say you are running out of time, why do you think you are a freak and finding love in the world is fine but I think you are being a liitle hard on yourself. Find an activity you enjoy participating in and the rest will fall into place. make sure its something your mom agrees with and understands that its for you and not her. A lot of people try to please everyone but themselves and you have to do things you enjoy that are positive and will contribute to your well being. Good Luck!
2006-07-20 16:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor feel good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, your mom doesn't need to get involved with who you hang with.
Explain to her that you want some friends, and you don't want her to choose for you.
You can make new friends in different ways, like going to different kinds of group activities. That way you will meet someone with the same interest as yours.
2006-07-20 16:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make friends - it is a part of the socialization process and about being an adult. Why is it your mother doesn't approve of your friends? You say you are a freak...why do you believe that?
2006-07-20 16:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dosent seem right for your mum to do that. well there is some love in the world and dont think that you are a freak. dont let other people make that decision for you.
2006-07-20 16:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ill be yo friend and it's a mom my mom do the same thang
2006-07-20 16:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Nyrhea7699 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a friend in me.
Stay strong and be yourself-what people think doesn't matter. Work on what you think about yourself. And STOP calling yourself a freakm!
2006-07-20 16:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by April G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your mom why? Fine out if there is a reason.
2006-07-20 16:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋