if you have, how did it happen? how did you know this was it?
and,
if you haven't, are you still looking?
i'm just wondering, cause i'm 27 and i've never been in love, frankly it's never went past the ''infatuation phase'' with me, i end up just losing interest.
i am really looking forward for some answers from you all.
2006-07-20 08:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by Rene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you all for the wonderful answers, they are real, honest and best of all, hopeful!
2006-07-22 00:36:26 · update #1
I have and trust me true love is out there. He's been with me for eight years. We are married and have a two year old. I can't wait to see him everyday, I get butterflies when I think about him and I don't think I sometimes deserve his love. We fight, don't get me wrong, but it's always those "i still love you" fights. Don't give up. Maybe it is the guy sitting next to you, that you've known for years and one day, you just realize it. Happened to me.
2006-07-20 08:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by brandiwhine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my husband for about 5 years before we started dating. We were never close friends or anything but just one of those people I always ended up running into at parties or whatever, we had mutual friends...and all that time the perfect guy was right under my nose and I barely noticed him...mostly because I was always tied down with someone else. But once I was single, we ended up in the same places more and more often and we ended up liking eachother. And knowing he was "the one" was truly just a feeling in my gut. There's no way to explain it. I just knew. It felt right. I'm 27 too by the way..just got married last month. Don't give up :)
2006-07-20 16:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by sookieruthie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 7 years, and speaking from my personal experience, I don't think there is such a thing as "true love".
Let me clarifiy. Most people think that true love is where you meet someone, fall head over heels for them the second you lay eyes on them, get married, have babies, never have a single fight, and die together hand in hand.
If any of this is what you're looking for, well, good luck because I don't think it has ever happened in the history of mankind. I love my husband dearly,and I know he loves me. But we have traveled a long, very bumpy road throughout the course of our marriage. Marriage is a damn hard thing, and you really have to be committed and humble and a little crazy to make it work.
And don't worry that your 27 and have never been in love. Have fun with yourself and live your life. When you least expect it, you'll meet someone and things will fall in place.
2006-07-20 16:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by just4funyall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately have. My wife and I just married in March and the odd thing is that we had the same friends since highschool and rarely talked. We both moved out of the state and after 12 years we came across eachother and started talking and next thing you know we were dating and discovered that we were meant to be together. It proves that if you don't go out looking for true love, it will find you, sometimes you have to wait and experience life to bring eachother together.
2006-07-20 16:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have we met 15 years ago and have been married for 14 2 kids blah blah.......we met at a party and started dating. HOw did i know this was it? Maybe i didnt then but i do now. I can't imagine my life without him. He is my best friend, my lover, my soul mate. I know he will always be there when i need him to be and vice versa.............
2006-07-20 18:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by asking4trouble2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my standard for a girl is really high, and i found a girl that matched perfect, and we dated for 6 months, then her ex bf who is 19 called her after a year of no contact, he didnt even ask her out he just talked to her at night for about a week then she broke up with me, 5 days later, after she got over me, they started to date again. me and her are both 15
2006-07-20 16:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I though I found it two years ago and we just ended it last week.
2006-07-20 16:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeeeeeeee!!! i have he is so sensitive and sweet and not afraid to show his feelings hes not a macho macho man!! he can cry if something bad happend!!! and whenever i look it him i loze my mind!!! it was love at first site!! but he doesnt love me!! he likes my bff!! im lozing my mind over him and my bff!!!
2006-07-20 15:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, but we're both attached. We could have been good together. I think she knows it too.
2006-07-20 15:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE NEVER FOUND MY TRUE LOVE YET. WHO KNOWS I MAY NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE.
2006-07-20 15:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋