OK, I think to meet the right person you need to know about them. I love having fun and goofing off and don't like a girl that is too serious. Can I get some feedback on these things?
1) I feel like all women deserve to have, the door opened, the chair pulled out, the offer to have the meal paid for....and other similar things....is this too old fashioned?
2) I think it is okay to compliment a girl on her body and her looks and also (after dating a while) tell a joke that is a compliment about thier nice features (no matter what they are) as long as she is comfortable with that. Is that wrong?
4) I enjoy dancing with a girl at a club and only want to date a girl that can let loose and shake it a little. Would you say that is fair?
5)Even though I am just 18, but my pay, my car, and clothes are really nice (computer job), but I don't want her to brag about them or like me just for those things. Is that fair of me?
So I'd love to know if there is any girl out there like me.
2006-07-20 08:33:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
ok.Y=that message is way to longggggggggggggg
2006-07-20 08:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I'm not a girl but I can tell you these answers #1. Manners matter #2. As long as the compliment is sincere make is. Too few make nice compliments. #4. Having good clean safe fun together is always great. #5. Your money and sucess should not matter. Tehy should accept you for who you aer.
Be who you are, do what you enjoy and you will find the right girl. It sounds like you have had a series of bad luck that's all. It'll turn around for you. What I can suggest is take a look at where you meet these girls, maybe you need to try somewhere else.
Last no matter what you sound like a great guy and going to make some girl very happy.
2006-07-20 08:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy like you ! ; )...it took me 32 years to find him but I got him. Women, now a days are very diverse, some want to be independent and assert their independence, while others are still old fashioned and want to take care of home and family. Your values are good and there are still a lot of girls out there want a guy like you. I raised my girls to be independent, but also to know that they deserve and should demand respect from men. Being a little old fashioned is a great thing and when you find that girl, you'll know. If a girl asks you what you do for a living or how much money you make or anything that has to do with your finances....on the 1st 3 or 4 dates...you should move on. Finances should not be discussed for awhile in a new relationship and a girl that asks those questions is probably looking for someone to "take care of" and "spoil" her. Be careful.
2006-07-20 08:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opening doors, pulling out chairs, offering to pay for meals. . .all great stuff. . .As long as you aren't fawning all over the girl. Pushing her out of the way to get to the door first to open it--definitely not cool. :) My guess though is that since you are asking about being courteous and also about paying compliments, it's possible that you are going over the top. A true gentleman will go out of their way not to make someone uncomfortable -- not say, "well, I did all the proper things, what's their problem?" How are you hooking up with the girls that like you just for your money. . .and how hard did you try to impress them with the chivalrous behavior and compliments in the first place? I'm no expert but my advice is to be yourself. Hang out with your friends and have a good time. You'll find the type of girl that you are attracted to without so much pressure to impress. And you have plenty of time yet to find "the one" so don't be afraid to have some fun in the meantime.
2006-07-20 08:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by wrknhrdngttnby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, first of all, I have got to commend u for being only 18 and thinking this way???? WOW!!!!!
K, first of all, u r a romantic, and there is never anything wrong with that.
You respect women and there is never anything wrong with that.
You enjoy the natural beauty of all creatures, hey, if sumone looks good they look good, and there is nothing wrong with that.
You Know what u enjoy, what makes u happy, nothing wrong with that.
you are successful, nothing wrong with that.
Now, the motherly advice lol.
You can observe the natural beauty of another as long as u don't "drool" over it when with a honey.
You can respect women and what they deserve as long as you aren't going out with a "feminazi" who thinks all should be treated equal male or female, and that kind of treatment is offensive.
You have a good thing going for yourself, but don't let it be your ego, don't "flaunt" it in such a way that it offends others.
You will go far in this world, just don't save it up and throw it in anyones face later in an argument, and don't ever throw it in one's face that u have all these virtues and they should respect u for it, and u will be fine.
You sound truly like a rare gentleman, and u should take pride in that, but if there is an issue somewhere, look at how u portray yourself, fine tune it, and u will find the one of your dreams.
2006-07-20 08:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being old fashioned. Most guys these days are pigs. It's nice to see someone with class and dignity. I would love an old fashioned guy. Someone who doesn't rush into things and isn't a jerk.
2006-07-20 09:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the right to be picky when it comes to dating. Someone will love everything you do and who you are. My advice is to stop looking. As soon as you do that, she'll come along.
2006-07-20 08:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 no
2 no
3 no
4 yes
5 yes
You sound like a decent guy. Good luck. remember, You'll have to pick through a lot of weeds before you pick a flower. :)
2006-07-20 08:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by MOMof2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a girl out there for every kind on man. I suggest getting out there and finding her rather than asking us if she exists!
2006-07-20 08:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by K8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r pleanty of girls out there who would be lucky to have you, you just need to date....not necessarily have sex with.....alot of them. people date to find that special someone, but they forget that even the failed ones r learning experiences. it teaches us what we don't want and how to treat others better, etc. good luck and have fun the right girl will come along.
2006-07-20 08:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are excatly the kinda person that is kind, and sweet. women like to have the door open for them and have there diner payed for... i think that is tottaly sweet of you to do things like that for a girl....
2006-07-20 08:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by Madtown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋