We've been together five years, give or take, and passion still seems good between us, but he always keeps his eyes closed, and head back as though he would be looking at the ceiling if his eyes were open. I can't tell if he's wishing I were someone else, like the girls on the "slut-fo-mercials", or just really "into" it. And should I worry that he is not so into me anymore even though we live together, and have talked about marriage, and seems happy usually? He is very private and non communicative, so I can never get him to really talk about anything, so not sure?
2006-07-20 08:09:29 · 9 answers · asked by katpak27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him "look at me baby...watch me f$#k you."
Haha...it's dirty, but it's fun and playful...make it fun, don't nag him about it.
To me, it sounds like he's shy in bed. You said he's quiet and non-communicative - why would sex be any different? It takes practice to dirty talk...but ease him into it, and let him know it's a turn on for him to watch you.
2006-07-20 08:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one, but even if he is fantasizing I wouldn't make a big deal about it...a lot of people do that during sex...not just guys either...you might want to try to spice things up....try toys or roll-playing....do something "visual" so he will want to look at you...my husband closes his eyes like that sometimes....also, something to think about....closing off one your senses makes some others stronger....try closing your eyes the next time he's on top....and keep them closed....just relax and really "feel" what he's doing.
2006-07-20 15:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I close my eyes too. I am never thinking of anyone else and I love my husband of 9 years more than ever. I am just shy and sometimes a little afraid to look at him while making love. I'm sure he loves you and isn't thinking of anyone else, he is just afraid to open his eyes. Tell him it is ok and to look at you during sex. Communication is key.
2006-07-20 15:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by hippychic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything else seems to be good, why would you question this. Is this something new? Or has he always been like this in bed? Don't read to much into this type of stuff, just keep getting creative in bed. Seems like you're a bit insecure.
2006-07-20 15:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with nightwish, he could have communication issues in sex too. and to tell him to "watch you f%&k you" is fun...might get a suprise out of him.. and definately do not nag him about it.
2006-07-20 16:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if happen again tell him pls look at me pls... show me your love baby... if not something wrong he thinking other women he sees everyone. my wife close her eyes samething and I said to her honey pls open your eyes and look at me and she did and knew that moment was my true love.
2006-07-20 15:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you to see him making funny faces during sex--goes along with being reserved. You're fine--in fact,,,oh, nevermind.
2006-07-20 15:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Pepper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the pleasure from sex!
2006-07-20 15:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW...
TUFFY...
2006-07-20 15:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋