I have been with my dude for almost a year now and we are so in love with each other, we met at the same school but he has graduated already. We never argue we always talk out are problems but I know him so well I know when something is bothering him but he sit there and tells me nothing is wrong. When I come home on breaks and weekends he turns on the tv when I want to talk to him or when we go out he just walk beside me and he does not have much to say anymore. He use to turn off anything to talk to me he use to want to hold my hand all the time, and he use to always have something to say. I know he changed every since he graduated because I dont see him everyday like I use to. but why everytime we are alone I have to intiate the conversation? Why is it that he nevers has anything to say unless I ask him something first? Or is it that I want too much out of our realtionship?
2006-07-20 08:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by unique_scorpi0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, first off, you need to find out if he is interested in someone else. You said he graduated and you don't see eachother as often as you used to. Ask him? Wanting to have conversations and wanting to be the same as you used to be doesn't mean you love him too much, but if he's changed then he's not the same person anymore. As him what he wants. It takes two to make a relationship work out. If he's just not that into you anymore, then he needs to tell you so.
2006-07-20 08:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't want too much out of the relationship. All you want is a normal relationship, someone to hold your hand and talk to you...thats not alot to ask. Sounds as if he has interest in someone else and is having a hard time telling you...Talk to him about it...but this isn't your fault...its not YOU wanting too much.
2006-07-20 15:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by irishME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to move on but don't want to break it off. Its sounds like something I went through before. My ex started doing things differently and we ended up breaking up. Ask him if he wants to see other people and see what he says and go from there. Good Luck!
2006-07-20 15:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus ttry acting aloof, dont try to start a convo, be busy..and he will start coming your way.. Sorry but relationships can hit the "Push andpull reaction..which is the more u push for attention the more they pull away..
just act aloof and see what happens!
2006-07-20 15:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People on yahoo answer's can only speculate on what or why he does what he does. ASK him. He is the only one who can answer a deep question like that. You say you know him then get his attention and ask away.
2006-07-20 15:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OCD is often confused with loving too much
2006-07-20 15:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school relationships do not last - face it. so just enjoy it for what it was and move on
2006-07-20 15:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be cheating!
2006-07-20 15:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sure can, its called obsession
2006-07-20 15:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
2006-07-20 15:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by handsum025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋