That answered heartbreakers question honestly get a reply from her too?...I know the truth hurts, but she did ask. Why do kids want to rush into adulthood? Do they think its so easy or do they just want to play house?
2006-07-20 07:55:53 · 11 answers · asked by lisa46151 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They dont think that's the problem.they think its cool and grown up and yeah all they are doing is playing house . until those bills start coming in and they have a young en on their side and they got to go to work just to pay bills and to feed and clothe the baby and gas money to go to all those places they think they can go because they grown and dont really know how much it takes on gas now but its fine till the money is gone.
2006-07-20 08:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they really think it's easy. Remember, when you are young you think you know it all. Unfortunately, it takes life's beat downs to make you realize how truly hard it can be. What kids need to realize is that your childhood shouldn't be something you rush out of. This is a part of your life that you will never, ever be able to re-live. Adulthood will be there until the day you die, so when I see young people rushing into adulthood, I feel very sad for them, because I would give anything in the world to bring those days back.
2006-07-20 15:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just posted to the same Q you did. I can't believe anybody is anwering her Q's like there's even a hint of truth in them! It's crazy! I think it's alittle bit of both; they want to be grown up and do the fun adult things, (or at least what they think will be fun, like have babies) and they think things will be so great when they have their own house, can do what they want, etc. I think they are obviously not being taught the responsibility that comes with all those things. That's why I try to teach my kids the value of money, and that having a child takes a lot of work; it's not all fun and games! That kid (if it really is a kid) is in for a very rude awakening when the real world hits, for sure!
2006-07-20 15:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not answer her question wish I had seen it. I left home at 17, but it was abusive. At 17 I thought I was an adult but through abuse I also had grown up a great deal. When I was 22 I was the mother of a special child again made to grow up more. But maturity really has no age and your right at that age they want to hear not the truth but they are right and it will all be OK. Have a good one.
2006-07-20 15:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to rush in to things because parents don't teach them well. Raising anything should start from the beginning. It's never too soon to start teaching them. There should be a handbook that every has to follow; since, it does affect the rest of the world.
2006-07-20 15:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh now they all want to play house til the honey moon is ova then they want out n all these young girls tryin to get some poor sap of a guy (just bc he is hott) to father their kid so they can say oh look i got so n sos baby n have all that babys daddy n babys momma drama stuff is so gonna mess up some poor kid who dient ask for it, just anotha round of kids havin kids n gettin us to pay for their welfare checks so they can try to trap some poor man, there is no reason girls n guys in this day n age should get pregnant on accident, if they said they dient do it on purpose they r lying.
2006-07-20 15:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids don't know the depth of a relationship they just see the togetherness not whole picture of what it really takes to stay together and to make it work . That is why they go from person to person.
2006-07-20 14:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they like the idea of playing house...but once they have to be responsible, its not so fun any more...kids lie...they want attention...i think she is someone else whe got reported she was telling stories left and right...and now has probably made this new profile...aren't we lucky..
2006-07-20 14:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by irishmomof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heartbreaker is just a kid playing games .... check the questions he/she has asked .....
2006-07-20 15:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Fanuc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so true. i just hate to see anyone in pain. but what can you do. if they want to experience love. they need to know or feel the bad side of it too.
2006-07-20 14:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋