why is it so wrong for a male to cross dress?

Question

females get to wear our clothing and nothing is ever said,however becuase i like to wear panties,bras etc. i'm the one they laugh at

Answer 1

Who says its wrong. Do you think its wrong. It may not be the norm in our society, but as far as wrong...since you are the one wearing the clothes, only you can decide if its wrong...

Feel free to make your own rules...you dont have to follow the herd of societal sheep like so many others.

Answer 2

I think that triviatm has the best answer so far, it definately is a cultural thing, in the united states we are a lot less accepting of people being different than many other countries, example, in Japan, there is festival in the spring, called kanamara matsuri, one part of the festival has crossdressers carrying a shrine that consists of a giant pink phallus thru the streets. In shakespearian times, women were not allowed to be actors, so all female roles were played by crossdressing men.

I don't see it as a bad thing for a man to dress any way he wants to, including a dress, its not my thing, but who gives me the right to tell you how to live your life, or the right to make fun of you for doing what you want? Just make sure if you go in public, to shave your legs/beard, I would prefer not bumping into any 'sailor bubba' types (google it if you dare)

Answer 3

There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. People should wear whatever they decide for themselves is appropriate. If that means that you would like to wear a bra, go ahead. If that means Jane X would like to wear a flannel shirt, fine. Clothes are not right or wrong... it's just a manner of self-expression and personal choice, and they're just cloth anyway!

Answer 4

Actually, it used to cause riots when women wore mens' clothing.

Clothing is one of the most obvious signs of one's social status, and when women first started wearing mens' clothes, it was a way of rebelling against the second-class status of women. They were putting men on notice that they weren't going to be good little baby factories any more, and expected to be treated as equals.

When a man wears women's clothes, however, they're sending signals implying a lower social status than the traditional male position. Most men aren't willing to send those signals, and many feel that it weakens their own position when another man does so. They feel that a man who wears womens' clothing is sending off submissive signals and is therefore vulnerable and open to ridicule.

Answer 5

Don't let other people bother you. I stated earlier in an answer that I enjoy wearing women's clothing from time to time. I enjoy panties because I enjoy pretty things. If you enjoy these things then wear them.. I bet the person you hook up with will be one that enjoys you in panties and bra.

Answer 6

Nothing wrong with it in the proper context and the proper setting. You don't really want to walk around "crossed dressed" on main street downtown on a Sunday morning, I don't think.

Answer 7

Nothing. It just means you have some type of mental deficiency and may have complex menatl problems that need to be resolved in a clinic. You should consider getting help for your issue.

Answer 8

I know what you're talking about. It is weird how women can have things both ways but men can't. I would never laugh at you since you're not doing it to entertain.

Answer 9

there nothing wrong it just all this religion people don't understand their religion they don't know how love all they know is how judge and make people like u look bad u are who are and don't let no one take that away form u stay Truth to ur self and god will love u no matter what they say to u

Answer 10

It's the people who worry about what your wearing who have the real problem. Enjoy your life, you only get one.
Tammi Dee