Okay my husband and i have been married for 5 months but we have been together for 2 years. I have only cheated (well would not say cheated) but there was a guy in my truck and my husband found out i did not want the guy to get it just happened but that was it and now it seems like he always thinks i am cheating on him even though he will not come out and say i think you are cheating on me. He thinks that because we never have any money. He thinks i'm spending it on other guys. If i'm not at work i'm with him so there is no time for me to cheat. What do I do?
2006-07-20 07:22:08 · 8 answers · asked by smsnms032406 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to him... theres nothing else u could do
2006-07-20 07:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does a guy just end up in your truck? Start working on your lifestyle. You are obviously messing around with other guys/speaking to them, etc. This isn't "trusting" behavior. Would you trust your husband if some woman just happened to be in his car?
2006-07-20 14:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it this way, but you created this situation by your actions. that's the poison of cheating. Once you cross that line, in the other person's mind, you have the capability to do it again. If not now....then sometime.
This mentality gives rise to all sorts of suspicions and paranoia...all because you felt the need to do what you did.
Time heals al wounds. If I were him tho, I'd have dumped your a$$. You should work your butt off to regain his trust. He deserves at *least* that.
2006-07-20 14:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him that his insinuations of you cheating are bothering you. Make him understand that you made a mistake one time and that you would never, ever cheat on him as you love him completely.
Since you are married, maybe counseling might be a good idea.
2006-07-20 14:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm some what in the same situation. We can't do much just don't give them any reasons to think bad, and try to do what they ask for in order for them to feel comfortable. What you need is alot of patience. Trust will come with time. Sorry but there is not much you can do but wait. Just remember don't give him any reasons to think wrong of you.........Good Luck!!!
2006-07-20 14:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by yo_010180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gave him a reason not to trust you, by letting guys get into your truck, whats next? is running through his head! got to talk to him about this.
2006-07-20 14:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is jelous, he is insecure. This is common with newlyweds. He will trust you more over time.
2006-07-20 21:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tom G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having guys in your truck is great place to start.
2006-07-20 14:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋