and now I feel like I can't trust women period and now I'm an asshole to every gurl I meet......What should I do???
2006-07-20 07:19:47 · 5 answers · asked by Bobby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is not your mom suppose to be like the only one women you can trust for any thing and not to hurt you not matter what the circumstance. Thats my mom, and I if can trust in her, then why trust the rest
2006-07-20 07:29:12 · update #1
from the get go, mothers make a pact with their children to provide a safe, loving, accepting, and nurturing home/ life. your mother is not capable or has decided not to fulfill her pact. i do not know how i can make you believe this one truth regarding your situation but, i can try. here's the one truth: YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT.
your reaction to being dissed by your mom is COMPLETELY NORMAL. how can one's trust NOT be shattered?
you may need some professional help in working through your mother's betrayal. please, get help if you need it. don't let your mother poison your soul and your future.
2006-07-20 07:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Cassor 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Stop being an asshole!!! You didn't like what you're mother did to you. That is not your fault. For whatever reason, she did what she did. Now, why should you not trust every woman. Not everyone is the same, you know that. If that's the case, why would anyone trust you? That woman was your mother and she did what she did. Would you do the same? I don't think so, because you are an individual, and even though she is your mother, you are not her. Judge people individually. Not everyone is the same. You will be a happier person if you start learning how to do this.
Good luck, from a woman you can trust.
2006-07-20 07:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is not every woman. Just because one hurt you does not mean they all will. Try please to trust again, or you are going to be alone forever. Do you really want that? Calm down and remember that women can be the way out of that betrayal if only you let it happen. Women... life is so boring without of them....
2006-07-20 07:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think negative u still have a loving father,
the rules of divorce in india r were odd, they just cater to the parents and its a nasty affairs in the courts even if someone doesnt want it the lawyers force u to put up a strong face,keep up ur luv for mom and she still loves u and not to forget dad he will always be there for u
2006-07-20 07:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counseling cause some day a girl gonna love you and you need to know how to love back. learn to deal with relationships now before its a problem.
2006-07-20 07:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋