When you have to let go of the person you love so much?
2006-07-20 07:08:41 · 14 answers · asked by T B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can understand your pain so very much...It is beyond anything anyone can experience..But first thing dont get any emotional support from the opposite sex as it will only boomerang on u..But have u thought deeply abt why u 'have' to let go of someone u luv so much..Is there some misunderstanding between the two of u or something? I guess u would be the best judge of that. Anyways since u have taken this decision, thing abt ur life in the future. What do u plan on doing say career-wise??If u are into some thing now then concentrate on that and most important of all,concentrate on keeping those who love u very happy..As they say,Time is the best healer.. Focus ur energies in to other things and make ur life fruitful and happy.. think abt the people in ur life who are most close and and whom u could call ur dear ones,be with them and make them happy and trust me one day, u will eventually find ur happiness.. Dont tok abt the person whom u luv so much as it will only keep reminding u ...give urself some time period..say 2 weeks, think practically everything about that person, cry urself out in every way and after that slowly let him /her go...
2006-07-20 07:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by logic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're in such a situation. Let that person go. It will hurt but it would be worse if the person stayed and still had the itch to go. That's no kind of relationship.
I had to let go of the man I fell in love with at first sight. (Yes, love at first sight does exist, but it's rare.) Those years with him were the happiest three years of my life. But cultural differences got in the way and I had to let him go. It hurt so very badly for a long time, and my heart will never be the same. But I got on with my life, and time does heal the wound.
Letting him go will hurt, but you will survive. Just be strong. Good luck!
2006-07-20 14:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Creole Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy for sure! it's hard to give over a love.. time will only heal or mend a broken heart! you may always have feelings for this person! However if you sit around an cry about it that would be a new life! your best bet would be to surround your self with your closest friends and don't worry about filling the void!
Just life YOUR LIFE not a couples life!~!!
2006-07-20 14:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing things you enjoy. Do things you weren't able to do when you were with this person. Real friends are always good to hang out with when you're feeling down. Counseling for yourself is not such a bad idea either, especially if you still love this person. Start finding yourself. Women tend to lose themselves in their loved ones and forget that they were once an individual with other interests.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 14:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease into it slowly because it will take time. Have faith...go out with friends and see your family a lot. Maybe start writing a journal and see if that helps. Always believe that someone great for you is out there and just around the corner. What you manifest in your mind becomes a reality - you just have to believe in it! I wish you the best.
2006-07-20 14:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh hold on girlfriend you are in for a ride. You basically go through the 7 stages of grief similar to death. Anticipate that they will come and at different times. Have a good support group of girlfriends (girls and gays) and family. Don't date anyone new and have fun discovering who you are again. In a year you will be happy to be single and won't want the drama of a relationship!
2006-07-20 14:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not real easy I'm going through the same thing but hanging with friends and keeping busy helps. best of luck
2006-07-20 14:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by kizzme1017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay single for a while, see what happens. loves to ya girl. if you need a man for the night, i can set you up with a red neck from my hick town.
2006-07-21 13:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very difficult but find out what that person is doing now! and if he/she has a new partner than maybe you should
sorry
take care P
2006-07-20 14:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to stay single to find out who you really are. I know it sounds stupid but you will never be happy in a relationship unless you are happy with yourself.
2006-07-20 14:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋