INFORMATION LEFT OUT IN MY 1st Question "this is a three part question"?

Question

just to let all of u know i already suport myself i was emancapted when i was 13 and i already have my own house that is completely paid for two stories i make my own money i have my own job i am rasing my little brother. I am my own parent and yes i think i can handel marigaeg and yes i think TOGETHER WE COULD SUPORT OUR SELFS and yes i know we are really young but he takes care of himself already too. i basicly dont have parents they lost all leagal rights to me and as for my BF he is was emancapted when he was 13 he is know 15 and as for the part we will be broken up before iam 16 thats what ppl said when we started going out over three years ago. people say we dont know the respoincabilty it takes to be married NEWSFLASH: just because were young dosnet mean we are stupid. i knwo what it takes and i know what iam getting my self into.
I also know that marigae isnt like a fairy tale i have seen my mom get married three times and divorced three times.i can handel this

Answer 1

Good luck. You aren't really asking anything here but here's my two cents worth anyway.
We all need support, ties, family of some kind. You are choosing to make a family. Sounds like you have limited choices, you are doing the best you can.
You are so young! Life has not been easy for you and will continue to be hard.
Find all the family you can. Look for suport for the various churches if you can go that way.
Best of luck to you.

Answer 2

Wow. so many flaws in your story, many of which were pointed out by Lisa M, as well as others. Here's a few more. In a question you posted 3 wks ago, you said it was your B-day, but couldn't have a party, cause your parents were buying your brother toys. Parents? I thought you were your own parent, taking care of your brother. Right. Here's another; You state in here that you've been with your BF for 3 yrs; yet according to some of your other Q's, you've A, had multiple bf's, and B, you've broken up, and moved on with someone else, then your first BF is mad about it. Yet another, relating to the first; if you are supporting yourself, why is it even up to your original parents to be concerned with your B-day? You took that on yourself when you left. Oh, I could go on and on. this is too silly for words. How in the world do you truly expect anybody to believe you have a 2 story house bought and paid for? We make very good money, and we still have a 30yr loan. If you're going to make up stories, at least make sure they all match; put a little work into it; I'm sure you can do it, even if you can't spell. You're silly.
PS THIS IS HOW YOUR BROTHER'S NAME IS SPELLED "J-A-C-O-B" put them together,that spells "JACOB" that's what it should say on his Birth Certificate. (unless your mamma spells like you do!)

Answer 3

The stories kids make up these days...its amazing !!!! Just a little bit of information....go back to school and learn how to spell and complete a sentence.
And as far as you owning your own house and that its paid off is SOOOO made up its almost too funny. There is no financial institute that would carry the loan or even loan to a child, which is what you are. You can't even have a bank account by yourself yet..you have to have an adult sign on to take responsibility for it. And at your age...by law you can only work 4 hours a day except on weekends then its 6-8 as long as an adult signs a waiver for you. And I dont think you are raising your little brother either, no court would allow it and any mother that would should be in jail. so.......NEWSFLASH......nobody is gonna fall for anything you just said, because we are adults here and know what the real world is really about. Grow up Honey......and stop making up stories....before long, crying wolf ain't gonna work.......if you dont understand what that means...well..then it just shows how young and immature you really are.

Answer 4

You need to go or finish high school, and go to college after that. I can tell by your spelling and punctuation you need that education. You will find out later in life how important it is to you.

How do you support yourself?

There are many men in this world, and you will see that after you start college. You are very young and need to have the college experience, and have some fun, grow up and mature.

I wish you luck. You are so very young to be on your own and to be thinking of marriage, no matter how long the two of you have been together. It seems you have been together because you are both in the same boat....why not both finish high school, both of you go to college and then think about getting married after you have careers all set in place?

sorry I didn't see your first question.

I wish you luck. You could get some counseling on a sliding scale through social services. After you graduate college and are employed you won't need social services which we as taxpayers have to pay for.


PS: Lisa M: you are so right on the point!

Answer 5

WHERE ARE YOU PARENTS!!! Why are you even thinking about marriage? All that you say that your capable of doing is a lie you are still living with you parents!!! remember the posting 3 weeks ago about your Birthday Party? Enjoy your childhood, you only get one. don't get out there and get yourself in trouble. you shouldn't be wanting to have sex and marry you boyfriend, guys come and go!!! This is the age to nurture yourself in school so you have a fulfilling career, son't let boys stop you, focus on yourself.

(Proof that you are still your parents baby)
THIS IS THE POSTING!!!

(am i being selfish?)
my birthday was today and my mom and dad arent letting me have my party till the end of July begign of august cuz they wont have the money cuz they have to buy my lilttle brother more toys and a new veido game so they wont have money or time for my bday they didnt even see me at all today so do u think i am beinge selfish cuz i am pist off my party wont be untill like a month affter my bday cuz they have too buy jakup more toys(already has three toy boxes full)

Answer 6

Regardless, you are very young. You may be a very mature person, but life is a very tough thing to handle. I don't care how much you think you can handle situations, there is a reason why children have parents. Not everyone has the greatest parents and sometimes you may have parents that never grow up, but you still need an adult figure in your life. I didn't read your other questions, but it seems to me like you need to slow down. You will understand what everyone is trying to tell you as you get older. Believe me.

Answer 7

If you are both financially independent and handling so much responsibility, you may be ready to get married even though you are young. My grandparents married at age 16 and stayed together because they knew what it meant to be committed to each other and to work hard. Age doesn't necessarily equal maturity (or immaturity).

Back to what I said before. You are the one who gets to choose your maid of honor. In two years it may be more clear to you who that person is. If you still can't choose between your friends, then, don't pick one and let all your friends be equal in your wedding. There is no reason you have to have a maid of honor. If they are really your friends they will be happy to be a part of your special day and not cause you a lot of grief.

Answer 8

Know way can you seriously ask this question and expect a "o yeah sure go for it", Your a silly teenager in puppy love. I don't know why you bother asking any of us for help/advice. You're obviously going to do whatever stupid thing you want. Well, hey have fun ruining your life. BTW, if you could "handel this" (really please learn how to spell!) then you wouldn't be here. Oh, your right about one thing. Being young doesn't mean your stupid. It means your damn ignorant and naive.

Answer 9

lol your so full of crap..

This is a question u asked only a few weeks ago..

what should i do GUYS ONLY 10 points to the answer with the most info HELP ME PLZ CONFUSED?
HEY GUYS CAN U SEE IF U CAN HELP ME FIGURE THIS OUT MY BEST FRIEND IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD IS A GUY THAT I HAD A MOJOR CRUSH ON AND HE SAID HE LIKED ME AS A FRIEND AND THAT IS IT SO I MOVED ON NOW WHEN EVER I GET A BOYFRIEND HE GETS ALL JEALOUS AND SAYS HE WOULD BE BETTER FOR ME THAN MY BF AND I DONT GET THIS CUZ HE SAID HE ONLY LIKES ME AS A FRIEND SO Y IS HE SITTING THERE SAYING HE WOULD BE A BETTER BOYFRIEND FOR ME AND THAT I WOULD BE BETTER OFF WITH HIM THEN WHEN I ASK HIM Y HE DOSES THAT HE SAYS I CARE ABOUT U THEN I ASK HIM LIKE AS A GIRL FRIEND AND HE SAYS NO SO WHAT SHOULD I DO I CANT FIGURE OUT Y HE IS DOING THIS HE WILL YELL AT MY BFS AND TELL THEM HOW LUCKY THEY ARE THAT I AM THERE GIRL AND THEN WHEN WE BRAKE UP HE WILL START FLIRTING WITH ME SO PLEASE HELP I AM SOOOOOOO CONFUSED I DONT KNWO WHAT TO DO OR Y HE DOSES THIS IF U ANSWER PLEASE PUT IF U THINK HE LIKES ME AND Y AND WHAT U THINK I SHOULD DO ANSWER WITH THE MOST INFORMATION WILL GET THE TEN POINTZ

Yep this sounds like someone thats ready to get married LMAO.. go play with your toys little one.. lol..

Answer 10

Emancipated at 13 - doubtful. House paid for, hahahaha.

Love is funny - don't rush into anything.

When you ask questions you should be prepared for the truth, not just what you want to hear. I don't think you'll find the validation here you are looking for.