i mean can u fall in luv with more than 1 person at the same time
2006-07-20 06:45:51 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe you can love 2 people at the same time. Do you only love one child at a time? of course not. In an ideal world, people would only ever love one person. However, sometimes this does not happen. But you generally love the 2 different people for their differences from each other. You generally don't love 2 people who are similar in all their ways. for example, one may be outgoing, while the other is more quiet, and reserved. The important thing is that if you are already married to one of them, that you honor that commitment, and do everything you can to pour more love into the one you are already commited to, and not let yourself focus, or dwell, on how you feel about the other person. that will only lead to trouble that none of you need. Good luck.PS If you trust in God, ask Him to help you to overcome the feelings you should not be having for the other.n hope this helps!
2006-07-20 10:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is actually 2 questions as I see it.
1. No you can not love 2 ppl with the same intensity, not at the same time and not at different times either. Each love is unique, you can love 1 more than the other, you can love a more looks wise but b more sex wise. Just an example, it is always different.
2. I do believe though that you can love 2 ppl at the same time. The same logic applies, you will love 1 more that the other, because you will most likely love them for different reasons.
The biggest reason for unfaithfulness is that you may lack something in your mate (A) and look for someone else (B) to fill that void and love that person (B) for that while you still love A.
2006-07-20 06:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love with several people at the same time But at the same intensity, no I dont think that is possible. I had two ladies at once and I did eventually have to choose I had no choice. I know that if I did not I could never really be totally close to either one. Now I am married to one of them and happier for it
2006-07-20 07:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to love 2 people at the same time - the intensity though would be an issue. You can love someone, and be "in love" with another. Happens all the time.
2006-07-20 06:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Aura Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings like "falling in love" and passion are flighty things. Sure you can have intense feelings for more than one person at a time, but true love is the actions, words, and effort that you give to another person. You can't be truly devoted to more than one person in a romantic way because you just don't have enough hours in the day.
2006-07-20 06:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its possible, as you percieve people in different ways, love is a very misued word, and you yourself know the difference, for example the love of parents, children, siblings ect... men , women have personalities and once over the initial attraction.... looks...... the personality will come through, you can fall for personality, sometimes more than you can for attraction, plus if youve been with one person for some time, new blood so to speak is like the begining when you first met your man/woman, how loving they were how good they made you feel, the other...person will give you all that at the beginning. so you feel like your in love with 2 people, but ....are you really??
2006-07-20 06:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can absolutely be in love with more than one person with the same intensity at the same time.
There is an emotional bond that can be forged with almost anyone. There should be no reason that we limit our love to just one person... however having sex with more than one is not acceptable by today's standards. If you find yourself in this situation then unfortunately you will find yourself having to choose because it isn't fair to the others who don't want to share you with anyone else.
2006-07-20 07:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by serveduphot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can fall in love with two people Perhaps not with the same intensity.Each one will fill a need or desire you may have
or for characteristics that you find appealing in each one.If we
could roll it into one person it would be great wouldn't it but you
have to decide which one you love the most for it would not be
fair to everyone involved.
2006-07-20 07:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lilies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking Lust or Love Here? Sure you can love two people at one time, we all do it all the time?
You got parents? Do you love them both? Do you have to choose one to love, then switch to loving the other one. Come on, Are you crazy! Of course you can love more than one person, but can you spend enough time with each of them to fulfill your need for intimacy? Here is the trick, if you can get them to love each other just as much as you love them, then heh, you can be a Mormon!
2006-07-20 07:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i can because for me it's not possible to love 2 people with same intensity at the same time.
2006-07-20 06:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Martine A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋