2006-07-20 06:23:51 · 31 answers · asked by hattonandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask yourself if the pleasure this relationship gave you is worth the pain you are suffering. If the answer is yes, you are fortunate to have experienced something wonderful. With the passing of time you will heal and have learnt a valuable lesson - life is never simple and neither is love.
2006-07-20 13:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by vagabonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a broken heart takes a while to heal. The best thing you can do to cope with your broken heart is do something fun, something you enjoy doing. You've always heard the phrase: "Life goes on", and it really does. Life does go on. Go out somewhere, by yourself, to a movie, a theme park, the mall, or do practice your favorite hobby, play a fun sport you like. Recreate yourself, so that your mind is getting rid of that bad motion in your heart. If you don't want to go alone, get a couple of your friends and do something together, laugh, cheer up, and the more you do this, your heart will start to heal. Look at it on the bright side. Good luck!
2006-07-20 06:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be positive and think that she/he will be back in your life if it was meant to be. They say if you set it free and it comes back to you is meant to be. Keep your self busy by working out, going to the movies, going out with friends the best one is take a break and take a small trip. The worst you can do is to look for comfort with someone else. Some people think by hooking up with some else is going to change how you feel and that's not the case. Make sure you give some time for yourself and go out and do things you weren't able to with this person. The best thing is to take a trip if you have the funds and time from work. It will not last for ever this heart ache you are feeling now. Is going to take some time and you need to decide if your going to spend your time apart happy or sad. Is your life you make the choices. Choice to be happy and positive and you will. Choice to be sad and unhappy and you will. Is ultimately up to you. Keep God close to you and he will help you.
2006-07-20 06:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over it is to look into the word love and question what it really is. Think of it as a word, and think of your feelings as nothing but a comfort thing. You are used to your Partner being with you becasue you guys were together for so long, now your not so you have to adapt to a new lifestyle. think of it as a gap of freedom that has just opened up in your life, the shackles have been released. Also one night stands are a good temporary answer.
2006-07-20 06:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by hells_secret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray for you. This is very difficult experience. But you should be best assured that large number of people had the same experience. Somehow the lucky ones managed to survive and to established another relations. It is really hard to overcome. I experienced it for over two years. I was told that she would establish contact after two years. Being a person with a positive mindset, I believed her. Inside, I knew that she would never contact. Yet, I lived with a false hope, with torture. I tried every therapy, music, reading, working, socializing etc. but could not succeed. After two years of life in total turmoil, sadness, bitterness, I realized that I should attempt to regain my lost positive mindset. Almost fifty percent of the problem is solved. To me, this is a huge and unthinkable progress. The remaining 50 percent should be something you decide. I started a daily thinking process, realizing that there is nobody in the world who could solve my problem better than myself. Thinking is believing. Thinking is living. Thinking is the ultimate truth. During, the first year, I could not think. I was suffering. During the remaining 13 months and 4 days, I started thinking. I am still thinking. The thinking process brought about a lot of change in work, life style and perception. You get huge ideas. You just have to choose one of them that would lead you to ultimate salvation.
2006-07-20 06:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by JT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, let me put my arms around you to let you know you are NOT alone. I know the pain of a broken heart...believe me. I did not think it would be possible to EVER get over him. It didn't happen over night. It didn't happen because I cried my eyes out and made everyone around me miserable. I started healing when I prayed to God for compassion and guidance, and asked Him to lead me in the direction that He wanted me to go. I told Him I would follow , because I was totally lost. Sometimes not being the leader is a good thing.
2006-07-20 06:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is your one true love - your soul mate - there is no getting over that person. You just leanr to move on with life.
I kicked my true love out almost two years ago, we tired to work on the relationship but he wasnt ready so I have been a sinlge mother for the whole two years of my daughters life (all but 4 months).... anyhow for the last year I have had to watch him date, move in with, and be with another person. I do not stalk him, call him, or contact him unless it has to do with our daughter. However, I also know that he still has me on a pedalstal and she gets upset everytime he compares her too me.
Just let this person go - if it was meant to be they will figure out in time what they either still have waiting on them or what they have lost because of their own actions. Just always be there for the person, be a friend, be supportive.... do not be cllingy - be as un-selfish as you can possibly be! Be strong!
2006-07-20 06:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart get better with time
go out and try to be happy
2006-07-20 06:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by VIVIENNE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will heal a broken heart. In the meantime, find things to help you keep your mind off of him. Focus on something new.
2006-07-20 06:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, first of all, I went through that a few yrs ago and it really took me at least a year to get over. The one thing you need to concentrate on is your friends. Spend as much time with them as you can - they know what you're going through and should be trying to help you through it. The one quote that helped me get through it was: "Never regret something that oncemade you smile."
2006-07-20 06:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋