I'm I dumb to forgive my boyfriend that cheated on me...We been together just about 3 years and he cheated on me a year ago and i just found out! Well I finally forgave him! Was I wrong? I truly believe that he is being honest on what happened. And besides he is the one that told me what happened! SO answer this if you cheated on someone and realized it was the biggest mistake of your life would you want to be forgiven?
2006-07-20 05:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by HeaRTbRoKeN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does it matter that we were both still young and living w our parents when the cheating occured?
2006-07-20 06:09:49 · update #1
not sure if i can help but i will try ive been married 11 years and my husband cheated more than once. it doestnt matter who tells u about it him or some one else. it still hurts the same. for me the fact that your bf waited a year to tell u. he might do it again and wait another year. the last time my husband cheated was 4 years ago and i still havent forgave him i believe u can for give before u for get. i dont think u were stupid u have to follow your heart and listen to your gut it is always right.
2006-07-20 06:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by robin w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf did the same thing to me and i still feel like an idiot but i did forgive him as hard as it was. it doesnt matter what people tell you because they are not in the relationship and no one understands how you feel, trust me i know. but if you truly love him then stay wit him. just keep your eyes open and keep in mind that he could do it again!
2006-07-20 13:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would want to be forgiven but i wouldnt do that either. i feel that a guy loves you for you then he would have no reason to get the attention from another female...
2006-07-20 13:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by okangeljenny23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Give him 2 more chances.
2006-07-20 13:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgave my BF 3 Times ........ Now were married 2 kids and happy cuz he dont cheat no more........ But dont worry what goes around comes around......... Trust me......... LOL
2006-07-20 13:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any work start before you think deeply but after you do the work don't think why the work started. I think u r understand my point.
2006-07-20 13:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by kartik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to you and Curious Bout - "once a cheater, always a cheater"
they will always be looking for something else, married/kids, or not.
2006-07-20 13:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by paisley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater. He will do it again.
2006-07-20 13:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by stickan8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋