cheating on your partner is the lowest thing to ever come for human kind, call me old fashion but i think it is sick and very very wrong. why do people cheat and whats on earth is good about it? does anything good actually come out of it?
2006-07-20 05:50:03 · 9 answers · asked by luckylu2k3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I completley agree, I seriously hope it has'nt happened to you... When I was younger I cheated on two partners, now i'm older there is nothing I could appreciate as being more hurtful that someone giving all their love, time, money in some circumstances, given up friends etc and putting 100% of their feelings and trust in someone's hands for them to not see how important that is. Why people can't be honest is beyond me... however, when I cheated I was worried about breaking up with my ex because of hurting her feelings... a contradiction I know, but if we were honest in the beginning that if we were not happy, no matter how happy the partner was we would end before we did ANYTHING like cheating. Is that ok? I've tried to show both perspectives there x
2006-07-20 05:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by carlos 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
That's the age old question-there are many reasons why men and women cheat. Some men do it as a thrill to see how far they can get before getting caught. And to fulfil fantasies they can' t do at home. Some just have a boring life at home and are locked into their marriage either by kids or don't wanna leave becoz their wives would clean them out.
Women do it for almost same reason-more so for the satisfaction I think.
I won't call it a low thing-though I'd be hurt if my partner cheated on me, but I'd ask him why he did and ask myself what can I do to keep my man at home with me instead of with the other women.
Sometimes cheating strenghtens a marriage in that the partner's realise what they have and not wanna lose that. Sometimes it destroys a marriage becoz they realise what they've been missing. Like prostitution there will always be man cheating on his woman-woman cheating on her man, we just have to hope it doesn't happen to u or if it does deal with it the best we u can.
Hope I was of some help.
2006-07-20 05:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I act like I would (cause people assume that i am a two-timer and all) but in reality, I think it's SO WRONG to cheat.
People cheat because they are bored with their partners or that they don't love 'em enough to fully commit to them.
And no, NOTHING good ever comes out of it. It just gives more heartache. If someone I love EVER cheats on me, i think i might go insane. #__#
2006-07-20 05:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by chilimuncher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer precisely, yet I did go away some guy i became contained in the early degrees of courting for someone else. We proceed to be acquaintances. sure I actual were cheated on. No I actual have under no circumstances been tempted to cheat because my better 0.5 is significant to me. My accepted colorations are pink, military and gray. i'm female.
2016-12-02 00:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been for someone for about a year and you really this this person but you are kinda getting sick of just have a quick fling and see what happens. I like totally put the sparks back into the relationship.
2006-07-20 05:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Lyndall T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree. its disgusting. i even thing sex without love is kinda sick (many people will disagree on that one, but thats jus me). but cheating is just unspeakable. id rather get papercuts all over my body then ever cheat or be cheated on.
2006-07-20 05:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt and i know he wont cause hes told me alot of times.
2006-07-20 05:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by horses19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you would, your a woman!
2006-07-20 05:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never say never
2006-07-20 05:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋