Is it the Sense that the man is in a commited relationship or is it the challenge?..
2006-07-20 05:44:40 · 24 answers · asked by Humility 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many women who target married men are sociopaths. They don't think that they have to follow the rules.
My mother is a true sociopath. She has ruined many marriages and brought down many a strong man. She is a very, very jealous person. She can't stand the thought of another woman having a man that she can't have, so she goes out and finds a way to get the man.
She dated a man once who's wife was in a nursing home for a serious illness. They had been married twenty years. My mother came along and insisted that he divorce his wife so that he would no longer be financially responsible for her. He eventually divorced his wife due to my mother's pressuring, but then he wisely dropped my mother because he could not live with the guilt of abandoning his wife.
It is a power trip for her. She is sixty five now and still tells women, "I can have your man any time I want". It's sick. She is married to a man who was married twenty two years before my mother came along and stole him away. Believe me, he's getting his punishment now(being married to my mother is Hell).
Married men project the very thing that most all women want. Loyalty, commitment, financial security, etc. Is it any wonder that women are attracted to them over the single guys who are mostly into partying and having a good time in the moment?
Have you ever noticed that the better looking a wife is, the more women flock to the husband? Sometimes it's because the guy is good looking, too, but sometimes it's because a woman feels more attractive when she can steal a husband from a good looking girl. Not many women want to steal a man that has an ugly wife. Where's the fun in that?
It's messed up. I wish people would just grow up and do the right thing. Women need to learn to respect marriage vows and they need to think about the children involved. It's not all fun and games. Married men need to wise up and realize how destructive these women are to them and to their families. They also need to stop and think about the fact that they will never have a trusting relationship with a person they met in an affair.
2006-07-20 06:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by JustLookinAround 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have had a few affairs with married men, and I believe the reason is that I was so heartbroken, from a couple of relationships I had and was cheated on, that I decided that being with a married man would be easier, and I wouldn't have to get wrapped up in the relationship, so I wouldn't get my heart broke, but guess what I fell for one who was my boss by the way, and I guess you know what happened, he didn't want to lose his family, and I no longer work there... I still miss him though,
2006-07-20 05:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by medgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are attracted to men because of the challenge, and the ego booster so i agree with some of your other answers, on the other hand, messing with a married man isnt so great, i wouldnt suggest it, women, its not the man you have to worry about, its his wife!!!!
2006-07-20 05:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by bmarleyfan26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some women are attracted to married men is because they do not have to deal with him on a day to day basis. They get the good part of the relationship; the part that the wife does not receive anymore. the tenderness, the physicality and someimes the presents.
2006-07-20 05:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man (and no i dont know this for sure and no i haven't cheated on my wife) i think it's a conquest for some women and i also think that because a man is married a woman may feel like that man is a good man and make the woman think that if she can pry him from his wife then she can have a good man... Someone elses good man...
2006-07-20 05:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rob H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not but i think your right one its a challenge to get the guy and if they do its an ego booster like yeah i got a married man im the mistress.i guess.Or two they know they are married so they wouldnt have a commited relationship with the guy just sex.I would assume those are the reasons
2006-07-20 05:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably all of the above,
but also, REAL men are hard to find - Ya know, the kind that works hard to take care of their family. Will fight to the death for their wives, etc.
Some women are attracted to men of virtue like that, and those men are often married already.
Their logical mistake is that if this man leaves his wife for her he is no longer a man of virtue!
2006-07-20 05:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Salami and Orange Juice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is involved with a married man. She say, "No commitment. She dosen't want a relationship. She likes the freedom without all the fuss.
2006-07-20 05:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Zeta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the challenge. It's like a game of conquest. It's sick but some women (and men) are perverse enough to want to see just if they can break up a marriage.
2006-07-20 05:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be because it's a man they can't have and the risk would make them feel sexy and seductive. The thought of being able to take a man away from his wife would mean they have a lot power over men.
2006-07-20 05:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋