i think i got my gf pregnant?

Question

me and my gf decided 2 hav sex and i dunno but i think shes pregnant i used a cindom but she says she thinks there was a hole in it im 13 wat shud i do ???

Answer 1

You should not have had sex, or relied on a condom. She should get a pregnancy test to see if she is pregnant. If she is, then you're going to have to tell both of your parents.

Answer 2

Well aren't YOU the smart one??? First of all you can't even spell condom. And if you could, it still doesn't mean you should have sex at 13. You need to find out if she's late or misses a period, and she definetley needs to take a pregnancy test. More than one, buy a multiple pack. Don't rely on one, because it could be wrong and that would make a mess. Chances are her periods aren't regular yet and her hormones aren't all together yet, so you MAY be lucky. You might wanna go over in your mind what you would tell her parents before you spread your legs again there son.

Answer 3

You're 13 years old and can't even spell condom so what makes you mature enough to be having sex? Having said that, I applaud you for using some sort of protection. But condoms aren't 100% effectifve. No birth control is so you better be ready for the consequences if they come.
Have your girlfriend contact the local Planned Parenthood where they can do a pregnancy test. That way you'll be sure. Over the counter pregnancy tests are very accurate but you have to use them correctly.
If she is pregnant tell your parents and her parents and start making plans for what will need to be done. Consider strongly the option of giving the baby up for adoption. It'll be a gift to both the baby that you're too young to raise and to the childless parents who adopt it.
Good luck.

Answer 4

why do you think shes pregnant? Did she miss her period? if so wait a week ...girls are sometimes late for other reasons. If indeed she does not get her period..then go buy a pregnancy test..that should let you know. If it comes back that she isnt pregnant and she still dosnt get her period she should go see a doctor..may be something else wrong. If shes pregnant then you cross that bridge and figure out what to do. You are way to young to have sex in the first place. Better off waiting till your older. You shouldnt be worried about becoming a dad at yourt age. You should worry about the next best video game coming out. Good luck.

Answer 5

my opinion is dont even think about having sex without thinking about everything that u can get from it. STDs, pregnancy and of course all the rumors and such that go along with being a kid and having sex. obviously, i didnt agree with u having sex at 13, like all the other responces you got on this question. it was stupid on yalls part, but it seems like no one was there to tell u otherwise. ur in like what, 6th or7th grade when ur 13? ya i think thats way too young to have a baby.. my sister had one 2 months before she turned 19 and its hard for her cuz she doesnt have the dad around. just look at all the teen pregnancies these days. most of them are depending on their parents and grandparents to raise the kid while they have a life and thats so wrong. but ne way. if she is, good luck and do whats right. if shes not, ur lucky and how about not having sex again for a while.

Answer 6

First and foremost your girlfriend needs to have a test done. Condoms are not 100% effective. If she is only a couple of days late with her cycle then chances are good its a false alarm. If she is a week or more late than chances are good that you have reason to be alarmed. Just remain calm and get a test. Just remember not to panic and not do anything rash. If she is pregnant there are lots of options and you need to try to support her in whatever she chooses. Good luck to you and remember that this is not the end of the world even if things look grim right now.

Answer 7

See if she'll take a pregancy test. She can't be totally sure that she's pregnate anyways, She may think there are signs which is only what her body ends up telling her in the end but the fact is i know it'll be hard but if she is pregnate then you both need to talk to your parents then have both set of parents sit down and have a calm (make sure it's calm) Conversation, you don't want things escalting to something it's not. Trust me I've been through it before. but if you can ask her poilety (sp?) if she'll take a test and if the test comes out postive then you need to tell both set of parents it's better if she tells her parents and you tell yours but alone right now it's best if you don't tell them together. The fact is she might think she's pregnate but not make sure she takes a test to find out before you go and tell any parents though. Hope this helps you if you need more info just e-mail me and I can help as i said i've been through a situation like this before so I know if she is pregante it's going to be hard exspaically (sp?) because your only 13 I'm 16 and it's hard enough. I know you've probably already heard everyone yell at you so I'm not going to I bet you already knew it was wrong so i'm not even going to say it. BUt you know what you did and you probably don't want to listen to anyone say it but do me a favor don't listen to them making fun of you ok?I'm not gonna tell you not to do it because it's your life and it's up to you. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

First of all chill every young girl thinks she's pregant everytime she has sex. How would she know if there was a hole in the condom if you didn't? It isn't like she felt it. Also yeah wait until she's on her period. I'm not gonna tell you to stop having sex because you're gonna do what u do. But is this hell your going through worth it?

Answer 9

Doh!!!

You're girlfriend is either paranoid or a liar. How does she know there is a whole in the condom? Tell her to stop playing games and grow-up. Tell her to get on the pill and use condoms and don't pull that ish again.
By the way, u could also stop having sex, it will ease your mind. You are too young. OMG what if she is pregnant. How will you put the child through college!??

Answer 10

U shouldn't be having sex at 13 anyways, so that's up 2 u, U should tell your parents and see what they can do

Answer 11

Like I always say...If you're not old enough or capable of taking care of a child by yourself, you shouldn't have sex because sex could result in a pregnancy. Your gf needs to take a test. Shoot with her young self, her periods probably aren't regular yet and her pubescent(sp?)hormones are still getting themselves together. Still, she should take a test and if she's pregnant, both of you definitely need to tell your parents.