2006-07-20 05:35:14 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do men get uptight if their wife has sex with another man? It's just sex!?
2006-07-20 05:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is disrespectful and immoral. Just sex???????? If you really feel that why then why not stop just to because she wants you to. I mean after all it is just sex it doesn't mean anything right. So of course you should have no problem doing with out it. How would you feel if she did the same thing. You would lose respect for her right. Same thing. It is wrong and you know it. Relationships are about total commitment to each other. That means two people not two hundred.
2006-07-20 05:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't have exclusive relationships, just have casual sex. We get "uptight" if you lie and say you love us and pretend to be faithful and THEN sleep with other women. Just be honest and you can avoid this problem. If you want to have multiple partners, by all means, do so, just be up front with them all and don't make them think you care when you don't.
2006-07-20 05:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is an intimate bond between two people, and if the guy is screwing around, he basically doesn't respect the relationship he has with his lady. It's a matter of trust, and if you can't trust your partner, why are you with him? And if the lady doesn't care about his philandering, she needs to pack up and leave. There are other good men out there who would respect a lady.
Another thought crossed my mind: Could the lady who is with the guy who is fooling around have some self-esteem issues such that she is afraid to leave? Just a thought...you know how psychology majors like to analyze things. :-)
2006-07-20 05:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Creole Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the whole thing, to women sex isn't just sex. Sex is a nice way to show you care. Women think about sex way different than guys.
2006-07-20 05:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume it would be all right if you were seeing someone and they had sex with someone else? Most women become emotionally involved with the person they're having sex with. Maybe that's one of the differences between men and women. But have you considered that by having sex with others, you could be spreading STDs to others?
2006-07-20 05:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask that question as if men don't get uptight if their woman has sex with another man............give me a break
2006-07-20 05:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by ????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you personal why I get upset. If its just sex than have with your mate and have good sex together. Men needs to respect the women their with and be honest. Having sex with another women makes YOUR women feel like she is worth **** and cant please you. Now if you the type that likes to sleep around tell your mate first so she could back off from your nasty ***.
2006-07-20 05:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by eryka442002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you made a committment or vow depending if you are married or dating to be with that one person. If you want to sleep with other people then be single. By sleeping around it shows you can't make a committment or be trusted and you can't love somoene. If you love somoene, no one else would interest you. I was married for 12yrs and not once has another woman interested me since the day I met my wife
2006-07-20 05:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex with someone you are giving them a part of your soul. Why do people like you take sex for granted. And anyways, if you go around hurting people, one of these days when you decide to be serious, someone's gonna play you. It always comes back around and the ones you hurt will enjoy watching it unfold.
2006-07-20 05:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋