I met this dude and he is real cool to hang out with. It's nothing sexual b/w us but he says things like, "Damn, he got a nice body!" One time his cousin saved a "flick" (porno) on TIVO and we flipped through it. The guy had a huge penis. I'm black and I have never seen a white man with a penis that big so I said "Damn!", my friend said "He got a nice size huh?" We will also be on the phone watching videos on TV and he'll say....."he's cute" and **** like that. I'm not attracted to him, he's just a new friend and I don't want to step to him wrong and lose a friend.
2006-07-20 05:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by high_yella305 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
He seems to go that way don't he? I would think he is just trying to feel you out as to your reaction to it before he tells you. Or maybe he is trying to get you to ask him so he can come clean.
You might could tell him about a gay friend or something about gay culture that you have heard of and say I really don't have a problem with homosexuals but I don't know a lot of them. see what he says.
2006-07-20 05:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may simply be curious. You may even be a little curious. There is nothing wrong or abnormal here. Ever since Kinsey, researchers have consistently found that the vast majority of human beings are neither exclusively heterosexual nor exclusively homosexual. We're all somewhere in the middle. Just relax. You and your friend are ok. And, even if you choose to explore this situation with your friend, that is ok, too. If life isn't about enjoying pleasure when you can find it, then life is pretty grim.
2006-07-20 06:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he's gay, but that's something you should ask him. He sounds pretty open about it so just ask, "You know that new guy, what do you think of him?" and if he says he's cute then ask him if he would want to get with him.
2006-07-20 09:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea he probably is bi or gay... Or he could just like saying stuff as a joke? I used to say stuff like that as jokes to my friends...
2006-07-20 05:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Amethyst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All normal men like big and cute pe*** and a**. It dosen't mean that he may also like one inside another.
2006-07-20 07:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he mentions something in that manner ask him if he'd like to see it up close.
2006-07-20 05:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by frofus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like it, but he could be just really comfortable with his sexuality.
2006-07-20 06:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's gay....but you don't have to lose him as a friend...I think the comments are his way of saying "I'm gay"....reverse the scenerio...did you ever say to him "I'm straight"?
2006-07-20 05:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, HE IS GAY/BI
Always assume that he is untill he himself tells you that he isn't.
2006-07-20 05:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds gay. he's giving you all the signs
2006-07-20 05:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋