husband(7/19/2006 11:17:25 PM):did u delete ur pic of the one showing ur nipples?
milfintraining(7/19/2006 11:24:43 PM):no someone reported it
husband(7/19/2006 11:25:15 PM):why?
milfintraining(7/19/2006 11:25:26 PM):guess cuz it showed my nipple
husband(7/19/2006 11:26:19 PM):hey i know im married but i liked it
husband(7/19/2006 11:29:28 PM):wud u tell my wife if i told u u have nice boobs
milfintraining (7/19/2006 11:30:10 PM): no
husband(7/19/2006 11:31:12 PM):i thought i heard her waking up
milfintraining (7/19/2006 11:32:47 PM): its cool
husband(7/19/2006 11:33:09 PM):u are very good looking
husband(7/19/2006 11:33:19 PM)u are hott
milfintraining(7/19/2006 11:33:30 PM):thanx
husband(7/19/2006 11:33:40 PM):too bad im married
husband (7/19/2006 11:36:25 PM):well sweetie goodnight and ill ttyl give ur baby a kiss for me
what should i do? should i even be worried? it bothers me cuz he nevers tells me anything nice. please give me some advice
2006-07-20 05:24:53 · 49 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont know how far he would take this convos, he might meet up with these females, please help
2006-07-20 05:25:37 · update #1
i cant get rid of the comp because i use it for college.
2006-07-20 05:26:52 · update #2
when i am in the same room he doesnt chat to anyone but his male friend. i went to bed early last night cuz i wasnt feeling good and he gets online and starts talking like that.
2006-07-20 05:50:49 · update #3
I think you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. You need to let him know that you know he is talking to these other women and that it hurts your feelings that he can tell them how wonderful they are but can't tell you the same type of things. As long as he is only chatting to these girls and he is clear with them that he is married, it isn't a big deal that you should be real afraid of. However, when he stops telling them he is married, start sharing intimate details with them, or decides to meet them in real life then you have a real problem.
2006-07-20 05:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Hi the answers some of you give is just unreal. Pathetic !! He clearly states he is married and the other woman knows and nowhere did he say he wanted more.
No where does it says ever man and woman has to be married for life. Every person has the right to fall out of love.
From reading your post if you love your husband and want it to work between the both of you better talk to him in a gentle and calm way. Don't argue about it will get no where and he will get defensive.
Start the conversation like can I talk to you about something that has been bother you then mention about the messenger and SAY is there something that you can do to make your relationship better etc. Ask him what he is missing as you would like to be there for him etc.
Use some reverse physiology. :)
Makes no sense to argue about it as both will get upset and defensive.
Maybe all he was missing is companionship and both your life is in a routine.
Hope you can resolve it. But if you value your relationship don't talk to him in a hostile manner.
Good luck.
2006-07-20 05:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by M . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried. I had an on line affair and it almost ruined my marriage. I always thought it was innocent, that chatting was something like an entitlement for me. I did not realize how far I had been sucked into this unbelievable abyss. Thank God my wife loved me enough to help me through this horrible mistake. I was finally made to realize how devastating my actions were to the woman I was was married to and that I loved.
Your husband is playing with fire. While he chats and only the Lord knows where this will lead, he is violating his wedding vows because he is giving some anonymous woman affection belongs to you. Good luck.
2006-07-20 05:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This puts you in DEEP. You have a child with this man??? Not to bad mouth him, but this hidden side of him you just saw is for real. Talk to him about it. A divorce is probably in the picture. He doesn't seem to value your love and trust very much. Pick someone who will cherish you for the rest of your life and give you a wonderful family who will love you. Please don't let yourself be weighed down with someone like this. I know you may love him, but take a night and put everything together. Maybe he doesn't really love you, or he does, but he has a personality that's incredibly off-balance. My dad looks at porn, and I don't really think he's all that satisfied with my mom. So...I think yours is the same case. Your husband may not get all his satisfaction from you anymore. Be on your guard. Good luck! And I'm always here to talk to if you need me. My email is stupid_midgets_123@yahoo.com. Don't hesitate!
2006-07-20 05:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Confuzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried! He has committed adultery. Maybe he hasn't physically, but even if all he has done were messages like this.... I believe that is still adultery - which is a sin. God's Word says that even if you think the act it's as though you've committed it.
Sure we all have thoughts, and some aren't the best..... but this is over the line. He is violating his commitment with you and it's not right and you defiantly should talk to him about it.
And in your talking, get him to talk to you about how he feels, why he feels the need to talk/type to someone, etc.
Don't' waste time, don't feel uncomfortable either, HE is the one in the wrong not you.
Communicate
2006-07-20 05:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur sure he is cheating on u.. then confront him.. how he gonna know he better shape up or ship out if u don't put him on blast.. let him know u ain't having it and that if some side chick is worth losing his family and wife then he needs to keep it moving...
if he admits he's cheating and claims that he only wants to be w/u from now on than u can give him another chance and send his a$$ to counseling or leave him..
it's a 50/50 unfortunately w/men
2006-07-20 05:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be worried. Your husband doesn't love you. This is bad, Your right, he could definately take it further with someone else. The temptation is there. Luckily this woman doesn't seem too interested but she could change her mind and pursue him and there will be others out there that can tempt him.
This is not considered "innocent behavior" or "just having fun". He complimented her boobs and told her twice how good looking she is!
Do you know what MILF stands for? Mother I'd Like to F***K!
2006-07-20 05:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by JanLeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. I hope you are a strong woman, because your husband is "emotionally" cheating on you at the very least. You should siimply walk up to him and ask him if he wants a picture of you with your nipples showing and see his response. You might be able to get through this with counseling, but I don't know, there might be more going on. Good luck.
2006-07-20 06:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know you may not to hear this but that is Innocent behavior of a man, even woman do that on here. I myself have and my husband , I think it is more like am I still hot , and do I still have what it takes, maybe both of you have lacked in complements to each other? My husband and I really do it out fun now,as matter fact he laughs when he sees someone flirting with me vise versa,cause no matter what my husband knows me and what i like ,not person flirting and showing off for me, at first I did have a problem with it , but I know he anit going to do nothing, If it is just showing body and not masturbating and him asking her if she wants something ,or a phone number do not be to concerned , but do talk it out with him and say hey maybe we can tease each other like this . I hope this helps .
2006-07-20 05:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by its_ok_im_here69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No married person should be in any messenger or chat;it's a breach of trust.If someone wants some excitement that does not involve their spouse they should rent some porno and j*rk off.
It seems incredible to me that you are wondering what to do and seem sort off afraid.If it was my husband i'd uninstall the messenger or sleep right in front of the PC.If he gets angry it's a sure sign he wants to get on the messenger.
2006-07-20 06:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by bloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋