okay i kinda lead him on but i dont want to have sex yet and im afraid if i tell him he will be mad. please dont tell me what i want to hear tell me what u would do if you were in this situation and if you are a guy tell me how you would fill if a girl did that to you and b honest.
2006-07-20 05:21:32 · 19 answers · asked by christina s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should not have lead him on if you werent willing to step up to the plate. If you arent ready, dont do it, but dont lead him on because if he is ready, he will get very frusterated! Tell him you decided you wanted to wait and that you arent ready yet. If he respects you, he'll deal!
2006-07-20 05:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Island_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him BEFORE you get to his house so he won't get any ideas. Otherwise you may have a predicament on your hands. Young boys hormones are not easily controlled sometimes. You may get pregnant if you DO have sex and if you aren't even ready to have sex in the first place then it's a definite NO-NO. I know you have heard this a million times, but it's so true... if he respects you, he will understand. I'm not saying he won't want to have sex with you, but he will wait until you are ready! Be careful and make sure someone else is around, why not bring a friend? What can he say? Go somewhere where a lot of people are around, meet him at the mall, or at the movies if you feel he won't take it right. Be honest with him about that though, tell him you don't mind other stuff but ARE NOT READY TO take the plunge! He should be understanding if he's a good guy. He may not LIKE it, but he should respect it!
2006-07-20 05:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! If this human being is attempting to get you in mattress after in basic terms 2 months (it type of feels you're very youthful) and also you do not prefer to do it, there is not any center floor. He of course would not care about your needs in any respect. exceedingly if it is your first time, bypass with someone that cares about what you want. also, make certain you do not bypass everywhere that you 2 will be on my own. it fairly is continuously a volatile time and also you do not prefer to precipitate date rape. you do not quite comprehend him o.k.. do no longer beat around the bush and say that you want him, yet... no sex. do not fool round a "little" and picture which will suffice. easily do no longer provide him a BJ as others have reported, because meaning outfits coming off and he will choose extra quickly. Be sparkling and be good; you've the ability right here and regrettably you should use it. this would mean you and he chop up, besides the undeniable fact that it is worth it to discover someone that quite cares about you!
2016-11-06 21:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are opening yourself up for rape. As a guy, I would be pissed off with you for playing with my head. I would kick you so far to the curb, you would have a dent in the back of your head. I would be pissed at you, not because you didn't give me any, but because you played like you were going to.
Please don't be one of these nasty ho's that end up in the paper talking about how she went over his house, took off all of her clothes, spread her legs, pulled him on top of her and said, I changed my mind.
Call him up and tell him what an irresponsible idiot you have been and that your friendship means more than the hurt you are causing. Ask him to forgive you for leading him on and tell him that you are not ready to be sexually active.
Don't go to his house. Stop playing games. RAPE - IS COMING!
Thanks for asking us to be honest.
2006-07-20 05:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I would never ever ever pressure my girlfriend into having sex with me. Your a teenager you shouldn't have sex for a long time. If he starts to act like thats what he wants to do just say I do not want to have sex and if hes not ok with him then your in a bad relationship, so end it.
2006-07-20 05:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in person how you feel But don't be alone with him especially in place where you can have sex! Tell him that you love him, kiss him, cuddle with him. But explain to him how far you are willing to go. If he loves you he will understand and support you. If he pressures you into sex he doesn't love you and you should dump him. Good luck I hope everything turns out good
2006-07-20 06:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok just tell him and if he doesnt like then he will get over it unless thats all he wants and if it is then leave him he's not worth it for that!! Just dont give in to it unless you really want to. Protect yourself forom being harmed!!
2006-07-20 05:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in that situation i wouldn't even go to his house, you can talk on the phone on how you both feel about sex, so you won't regret much anything.if your pressured into sex and you don't feel it's your time get out of the relationship
2006-07-20 05:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, you're not ready. Don't feel pressured. I am sure that your relationship is stronger than sex. If you are not ready, he should understand. If he doesn't understand dump him. He's not worth it. Let him go find some skank that will pleasure him for 10 seconds.
2006-07-20 06:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to have sex yet tell him. He has to respect that. If he pressures you to have sex with him or leaves you because you won't, it means he doesn't respect your decisions and you shouldn't be with him. If he cares about you he will respect your decision to wait.
2006-07-20 05:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by trida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋