He suppose to come home at 6:00pm but lately come home at 8:45 I think he cheating but he tell me he is working I don't know what to do I thinking about leaving him please give me some advice. I want to trujst him but it's too hard.
2006-07-20 05:01:35 · 15 answers · asked by Brandi K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Seems like he only want sex. You can do better.
2006-07-20 05:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't necessarily think he is cheating on you. Maybe he is just tired or doesn't really feel like talking. If he was your husband, this would be something weird and unnatural. The only thing you can do right now is to ask him why he came home so late. If he gets mad or defensive, he may be cheating. That would be like a trick to break up with you since you made him mad or got on his nerves. But then again, he came straight home, and didn't say anything to you!? Yep that's kinda weird there. Just tell him that he is kinda showing you cheating signs and if you don't speak up and prove me wrong, then you gotta go baby!
2006-07-20 05:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only say tell him how you're feeling, which may sound like horrible, hard advice. I know I would be ticked if you wrote that to my question because I would obviously be looking for other people's answers and not his, but it is the best way. What kind of job does he have? Is it a job where it's normal to have overtime? If he is working in a bank and doesn't come home from "work" til almost 9, you have problems
2006-07-20 05:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is you need to have time off what ever day you think he will be working late and go stop by his work around 7pm and see if that true and if you don't see his car. Call him and say hi honey just want to see if you coming home or you will be late again? he said yeah being late again. then you at the parking lot and you see no car of his then Bam you know 1. you show up at his work at 7pm, notice that he not there and no car. 2. you called to make sure... but he said yeah.. 3. check again make sure drive around find it. 4. go home and tell him you cheating on me... If his face become really Red said no I am not cheating whoa he lying. I am deaf and every time hearing people lie and their face become red means they are lying. not even look or do look at you. so though to share the tip with you..
Oh by the way if his car there and see only 2 cars know his but not know who other car. and you call him and see if he working late again alone at owrk? if he said yes. Bam again lying cheating.
Oh by the way again if one his car there and you ask him again working late and he said yes and then ask him to come to the office door and if he said he can't then wait and hit and you will see him either coming out the office iwth woman or person dropping him off at the office. there cheating.
I hope that i answer and making sure to proof..So If he telling the truth and then tell him what was wrong what are you being cold to me??? seeing someone and if his face red really like feel his heart pounding so he lying. smiling.
2006-07-20 05:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the 2nd msg check his paystubs... if the hrs aren't there then ask him why doesn't he speak.. ur living together so if ur both @ wk allday then hell yeah, there should be a hi honey how was ur day or so what's for dinner or somethin... i wouldn't have sex w/him until i knew for sure... if u don't trust him, then stop waisting ur time.. visit him @ the office, offer to pick him up, have a discussion and let him know the lack of communication is disturbing and it's hurting ur relationship.. if he becomes defensive then u know what it is.. but ur happiness comes 1st darlin
2006-07-20 05:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure if he's cheating, I would investigate. Maybe you could look at his pay stub and see if he really is putting in an extra 2 hr. and 45 min. everyday. If the hours don't add up, confront him with the evidence.
2006-07-20 05:07:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is working then he will have a big check from all the over time he is doing, theres a way to catch him, if yo uthink he is cheating follow hm and find out.wait for him outside his job and let everyone come out and if he comes out with someone confront him. go in a different car a follow him find out where he is going.
2006-07-20 05:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His paycheck should reflect if not call him to his work # or stop by the office for a surprise dinner. Check his phone and email. If he's giving you reason to suspect then that's a red flag in itself. Follow your gut instinct.
2006-07-20 05:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him straight out if he is cheating. Do it face to face. You should be able to tell if he is lying especially if you have been together for a while.
2006-07-20 05:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he is cheating, you should find out for sure before making your decision as an informed decision is better than a premature one.
2006-07-20 05:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's too hard you should end it. He won't dump you cos he will feel like an a*s. So you should leave him. He is cheating.
2006-07-20 05:08:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋