hi, i think my girlfriend is having sex with her x cuz when we went out over to his friends place she and him went to get alchohol and i wanted to go and she said no. i said why can't i go with and she said i was too much of a watchdog...excuse me. then when we were going over to his place to drink she wanted to go with him driving over there rather than with me. i had to argue with her to get her to come with me driving. he and her always have to go behind closed doors so i can't see. it's not for long, but i don't know what they are doing. she even sat on his lap. she said she would do this but he couldn't touch her with his hands. then she sat with me. she always says to wait in the car to me while she goes inside her x's place. what r they hiding? when i go to her place she always says wait in the car. i got tired of waiting and went inside and she was on the phone with her x again. when i droped him off one morning at 5am i came back and she was on the phone again with her x.help
2006-07-20 04:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Leon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should let her go, bc she is not over her ex. even if they are not sleeping together, they want to be. they spend way too much time talking and spending time with each other. i am best friends with my ex, but we don't talk everyday and we make it a point to keep our significant others a priority. let her go.
2006-07-20 05:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by brownie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good little puppy. Do you want to be treated like a dog........if you do then she is training you very well and you will take whatever scraps of affection she gives you. It is sad that you would even put up with this after the first time....GO GO GO if you ever want some dignity and self-respect. If you don't mind being treated this way then you will stay.
2006-07-20 12:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstable honey what are you doing hanging out with your girls ex
Nooo honey get the hell out they are so playing you like a fool... and you dont deserve that.. all is a big joke and is very disrespectfull and i know its hurts you so my advice to you is not to even talk to her.. just tell her to ****** offf and go back to her ex and then find your self a real woman who is not a hoe!!! because sweety she is ******** the hell out of that dude as you wait for her in your car.... give her a one way ticket to hell and tell her and her man to kisss your asss ok just dump her before she dumps you and laugh about it in your face.. she is a real bitchh,,,get out is my advice,, good luck.
2006-07-20 12:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is going on. Even if it is not sexual, its emotional. People who are that connected to their exs still have feelings for them and that is not a relationship for you to be in. You should give her time to sort out her feelings.
2006-07-20 12:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy what's really ur job in this relationship. get out now. u r obviously the x here. forget cheating, she in a relationship with him and ur only the cushion she rests on. its all a game. am sorry u r into this girl. pls leave het, let them b.
2006-07-20 12:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by lifejourney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me as if she wants to go back out with him.I mean she sholdnt be doing what she's doing.if she'd dating you. cause after all she's ur girlfriend not his.and if she wants to be with him the she needs to let you know that so that you can move on.
2006-07-20 12:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she isnt sleepin with her ex, she disrespectin the hell outta u. U need to check that.
2006-07-20 12:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bout It 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz tyme to move on...she has no feeling for u anymore...seemz az if she usin u for sumthin n yet wantz to b wid her ex.....u have to leave her..coz itz obviouz, she dont want u....she wantz her ex......wut my advice to u is.....beat d living shyt outa d ex n dump ur girl.....OR how bout YOU find YOUR ex n do d same...n watch her go crazii n THEN DUMP her... muhaha..lolz
2006-07-20 12:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the whore!!! She's playing you for a fool, and you're letting her. Get rid of her, she's a slut.
2006-07-20 12:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the basis for a relationship. if u don't trust her, move on.
2006-07-20 12:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋