My brother in law and his girlfriend have been dating for 3 years. She pretty much has moved in with him and his parents. She is a liar, she talks **** about my inlaws(whom I really admire) She puts on this perfect front when really she is a ragging crazy person. Everyone seems to be fooled by her except me. I don't even like her coming around my 6 month old son. My brother in law can do so much better. I think she is really in it for the money and my brother in law is too dick whipped to see it!
2006-07-20 04:40:49 · 18 answers · asked by sallysally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him about it. Sometimes advice from someone close is all it takes.. sometimes they have to learn the hard way
2006-07-20 04:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by sexydp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See if you can catch her in the act. Also talk to your brother-in-law. If they haven't been dating that long then it may not be serious. If you speak with him then just tell him the things that you have heard. He may listen to you. But if it is a serious relationship and they have been together for a while then watch your words and the way you act around her. She could end up turning the tables on you and making you look like the b****.
2006-07-20 11:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Vira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds exactly like my friends that have been dating for 2 yrs. Anyways, if he's too dick whipped, then there's nothing you can do. If he's really in love with her, he's not going to find or look for someone else. If there's a lot of problems in the relationship, try introducing him to new people...friends of couse.
2006-07-20 11:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With things like that it is really very difficult to meddle coz in the end you will always be at fault. The truth will always come out so to speak Just wait for them to find it out. It is best that it will not come from you or they would think you are just envious.
2006-07-20 12:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not dick whipped maybe p**sy whipped. But anyway I'd stay out of it. I have a sister in law i hate, does no good to complain. live with and ignore or let it get to you...
2006-07-20 11:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to someone tell they are blue in the face. They won't listen until they are ready too. Try to catch her if you can until then there is nothing you can do. But if you don't want her around your son I'd tell the **** to stay away!!
2006-07-20 11:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by danie_1024 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one of those also!! Thank goodness they broke-up 3 weeks ago!!!
Don't worry they were together for 4 years before everyone else in the family finally figured her out!!
It will happen she'll slip up they always do!!!
2006-07-20 11:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can try expressing your concerns to your brother-in-law in a calm, private conversation, but I wouldn't try. It would probably be best to leave them alone. If you don't like her being around your son, that's your call and you don't have to let her be around him. My advice is to try to get to know her and try to like her or at least be civil.
2006-07-20 11:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seem too me that you have something on your hands but things work like this it does not matter how much she hides her REAL SELF i will all come out and then your brother-in-law will know about the devil in The red dress LOL
2006-07-20 11:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by A WOMAN SCORN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. your b-i-l is an adult. if this woman is bad for him, he'll eventually see it. You can't be the only one who notices, if she's as bad as you say. Maybe everybody is giving her the benefit of doubt. Anyway, would you want your b-i-l to be hurt? you confronting this situation is only going to cause a rift in your relationship. I'd leave it alone, maybe she'll get better.
2006-07-20 11:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by e j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, tape might work. Humans have an inordinately huge ability to see only what they want to see and your BIL may wise up only when it's a messy deal.
2006-07-20 11:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋