2006-07-20 04:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by luvyuanyuan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i really hope u r able 2 gt him off ur back!!
actually the best way cud b 2 start off by being frank with him
tell him tht u r not intrstd in him b blunt bt not rude
b prepared 2 listen 2 him bt reason it out
trust me this will b ur best n shortest route 2 deal with him
n if he still persists then u simply hav 2 deal with him
in the best way tht u feel
u can try spkin with someone who u feel is close enf 2 tht person n ask him/her 2 ask him 2 stop troublin u
or better still speak 2 ny of his direct relatives
like ny of his siblings or evn his parents if things go tht far!!!
2006-07-20 05:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by sak 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If the person you are trying to spurn does not deter from you no matter what you do....
It sounds like obsession -- not like or love or anything else.
You always need to get away from obsession. All it brings is A MESS in your life!
If you have tried to turn this person "Off" by doing and saying things bad, mean, gross etcc...
Than try the opposite. If this person just seems more interested than ever, they might actually like to be spurned...
In which case, do the opposite!
Come on to them, talk nice to them, call them every hour etc....
Then, you might get the results you are looking for!!
Good Luck!
2006-07-20 04:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a person stop loving you because they love you for who you are and you dont want to change yourself. Maybe it's your personality, your beauty, or it's just something about you that sits you away form the rest. Don't worry about it, just dont give him any feed back. You dont want him getting mixed signals.
2006-07-20 04:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I was in the same situation. It may be virtually impossible. Only time will really help.
2006-07-20 04:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by run like whoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem with such losers. I just try to ignore them or be really mean to them. It really is mean and doesn't work, but at least it keeps them distant.
2006-07-20 04:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋