He had a vasectomy at age 18, then a reversal during a previous marriage. Four kids later, he got another vasectomy. Now, we're married and I want children. Initially, he thought he was too old to have kids, til he saw Tony Randall. But now he's looking forward to the opportunity to have more children.
We contacted a doctor about a double reversal vasectomy...the doctor would not take the case--said it would be unethical of him to do so given the chances of it working were slim to none. But then there's another doctor who's had success doing this with me who have had vasectomies 30+ years prior.
Has anyone had any success with this or with sperm aspiration or IVF? Any suggestions, tips are greatly appreciated in this matter.
Thanks in advance!
2006-07-20 04:35:53 · 16 answers · asked by worldglobetrottergirl 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
My husband loves kids...when he was 18, he and his girlfriend were pretty serious, she gets pregnant and he's ecstatic. Then she goes out and get an abortion.
The second vasectomy was also his ex-wife's decision as well. Guess she was tired of having kids until she got pregnant by her boss.
The two older kids are on their way out of the house and the two younger ones love kids and think it's a good idea. Besides, they don't live with us all the time...they usually are with their mother.
2006-07-20 04:52:28 · update #1
You might want to check out the testimonials at
http://www.reversals.com/testimonies6.html where one couple says it (SECOND reversal) worked for them.
Also, seeing you have nothing to lose, I would go for it, knowing that chances are slim. PS: Did u know about his vasectomy before you married?
2006-07-20 04:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by blind_chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Vasectomy is the surgical cutting and tying off of the vas deferens. This is the tube that carries the sperm to the penis. Vasectomy is a permanent means of sterilization. However, the procedure can be reversed using microscopes and surgery. The vas deferens allows sperm access to an egg.
The recovery time will include several days and a few weeks of decreased activity are required. The results are best in men who:
* had their vasectomy less than 5 to 10 years ago,
* whose partner is known to be fertile, and
* who had the initial surgery with a possible reversal in mind.
Medical problems that effect a man's sperm, such as diabetes or infections, are important to consider. Vasectomy was done as a permanent form of birth control. There is no guarantee of a successful reversal, or a successful pregnancy.
Choosing to have a vasectomy reversed is a difficult decision. It is important to understand the options. The cost, recovery time, and expected results should be reviewed. Even with successful reconnection, there is no guarantee of healthy sperm. The sperm are absorbed into the man's body after a vasectomy. This may cause antibodies against sperm to form. These antibodies decrease the chance of getting pregnant by as much as 25 percent to 50 percent.
http://www.baptistonline.org/health/library/fami3515.asp
2006-07-20 04:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by mxamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what kind of DR would do a vasectomy on an 18 year old kid that is what is un ethical.... second of all....It sounds as if your husban is a bit wishie washie about this kid - not kid - kid - no kid thing are you sure that you want to bring a child into that. He shouldn't be having kids until his are grown and gone. They were here first and they deserve thier father to themselves. What do they think?
2006-07-20 04:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the second vasectomy the amount of scar tissue is so great around the vas dermis that after a third the testicles will begin to have the blood supply cut off and the testes will eventually die off leaving him impotent and ballless.
2006-07-20 04:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is try. Without trying you have no chance at all. I no the reversals do work, but I don't know about doing it twice. All I know for sure is it is going to hurt for a while.
2006-07-20 04:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by sarric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes They Dont Take. You Still Could Have Kids.
2006-07-20 04:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IVF is a foolproof solution for him,but for that you have to go on hormones to increase the no of ovules. Can consulte a good gynaec and try out.All the best!!!!
2006-07-20 04:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all sincerity, your husband needs to receive counseling. His mood swings and choices are out of control. If I were an ethical doctor, I wouldn't do it either. Your husband's choices are not normal. Have you considered adoption?
2006-07-20 04:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unafraid of travel then i would suggest contacting doctors in Japan. They are by all counts more advanced then our own hospitals and doctors. I cannot give you any promises it would work but good luck.
2006-07-20 04:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any experience in this type of situation, but I wanted to tell you to go for it if it's what you both truly want. Children are truly a blessing...I wish you both luck, happiness, and success!
2006-07-20 04:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋