ok here is it
i meet a girl online few months back, we both are in same country but different states. by now we are very good freinds, we now even sit and chat n phone for hours together.i have never seen her neither she saw me. well i do have certain feelings for her, i guess its love. even she gve me certain hints by which i could understand that even she loves me. but i m not sure that i m misunderstanding her hints or not.
well she is 14 and i m 17
2006-07-20 03:55:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't you have to be friends first in order to love someone
just get to know each other in person before you try to give it a name.Besides shes only 14 I know that's not much of a a difference but when you are teenagers it is a big difference.
2006-07-20 04:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand that when you are young that it is easy to fall in love. Even when you have never met the person. But after the IM's and tel. calls you feel that you know them. She is too young. She can't go over and visit you and I dont think it's a good idea to go visit her. Imagine what her parents would think if she had a boy travel from another state to visit their daughter. That would freak them out and maybe get her in trouble. Take away her Computer and ban her from using the phone etc. Just be good friends. If you still have a good relationship years later then maybe somethng can come out of it then. I'd focus on someone close to home. Long distance hardly every works out. Believe me I've been through it and witnessed it many times
2006-07-20 11:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. first that is a big age difference right now...only because your about to turn 18 in the next few months to a year. Honestly, I wouldn't get involved too much with her......it's going to lead into some serious trouble down the road.
2006-07-20 10:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel in love with my husand when I wa 14, but we waited to get married until I was 24.
I was young and so is she. Because you are older, you have gone through more. If you want to be with her, do that, but let her grow and develop.
Don't be the boss of her. Guide her.
2006-07-20 11:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by jetia_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both too young to really know what you want, in the next few years you will both change a great deal, stay friends. but shes way too young for anything more. and in one year you will be considered an adult sexually and she wont for 4 yrs, so dont get into that situation or you can go to jail.
2006-07-20 10:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you're quite open with each other, so the best thing to find out is to ask her.
However, I don't think it's really a healthy relationship, or whatever you guys call it, because of the big age difference.
2006-07-20 11:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more time is needed to noe each other better... chat more or the traditional way pen pals. you are still sooo young , pls dun rush into unprepared relationship. you may feel excited abt tis gal but rushing into it will nv do u gd.
2006-07-20 10:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness you are babies. and you will be 18 soon TOO OLD FOR HER BY LAW IN SOME STATES. take it slow... NO SEX.... puppy love for her and you Man better slow your role. that is someones baby girl!
2006-07-20 11:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by yogishwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both young take your time and enjoy it
2006-07-20 11:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by grizzliesgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll,, i think u have to tell her.. most girls like hearing it without hints! so go 4it n good luck :)
2006-07-20 11:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by shoosh_b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋