why should i cry??

Question

Ok my bf and I talked last night, everything was aright we were laughing and joking around and all of a sudden he start talking about my x-bf and how I always say that I hate seeing him, is because I still have fallings for him, he always bring old stuff back, anyway so he said he spoke to his ex gf and they are cool, so I said u never mansion that u talked to her and I start over reacting just to see how he feels and I said whatever I really don’t care but it I got to go to sleep, so he said since when do u want to hung up the phone early with me did I make u mad? I said no but I want to go to sleep and I said bye and he said why u are getting jealous and all that stuff. And I just said bye I am going to sleep. He is at work right know I am not working today because it is my b-day he know that, he use to call me before he goes to work every morning, but know he didn’t even call me to wish me a HAPPY-B-DAY. I AM so mad I want to cry all my friends called me and wish me luck, I don’t want to show him that I was waiting for him to call me. What should I say if he CALLS ME?? How should I handle this?? And we been talking for about 8 month

Answer 1

Another fine example of why people shouldn't have sex until they are married. You are way too involved with this situation, and not nearly mature enough to deal. Sorry.

Answer 2

typical feelings. you expect something but you didn't get it so your mad. how do you know that he isn't planning something special for you this evening and he is just acting like he forgot. maybe something happened at work and he mentally preoccupied. is love based just around a birthday. I'm personally terrible with dates and remembering them doesn't mean i don't love my wife. i would of forgotten my birthday if everyone wouldn't of been calling me.
don't take one episode and be mad about it after all how is he the rest of the time?
life is to short to get mad over things that wont mater tomorrow.
look on the bright side if he really forgot he will work twice as hard to make you happy and buy you a bigger gift. simply because he forgot.

Answer 3

baby girl, you need to be mature about this. tell him that you're not comfortable about he speaking with his ex. and why would he want to speak with her anyways. you need to be up front. and if he asks if you're mad. tell him the truth, "yes, it does" so he knows that you're unhappy about it. he hasn't call it because he's afraid that you're still mad @ him. trust me. he'll call later. be cool about it when he calls. show him that you're a mature, strong woman.