Some don't want to be alone, but they also don't want to be committed to a relationship. For others, it's just the sex. Some married men are generous, and there's always the question of: "What has this guy got that somebody else wants so much?"
Being with a married guy ensures that they won't be stuck in a relationship they can't get out of easily if "Mr. Right" comes along. Since these relationships are usually hidden, a woman can have some of her sexual and emotional needs met without being seen as off the market.
Many go into it believing that knowing it won't go further will save them from messy entanglements and end up falling in love.
2006-07-20 04:00:40
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answered by raysny 7
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My case is the same of casey leftwich. Maybe women try to find a man with stablility in his life. Money? I don´t know, cause I´m not exactly what I could call a rich man. Probably they think if he´s married, that means he is no that bad. Someone else already did the job for her and discovered a good guy.
2006-07-20 03:51:07
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answered by Bruce W. 4
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My theory is that it makes them feel more attractive. I mean, they get the knowledge that something about them is more attractive than the specific woman that the man is married, too. Also it gives them a sense of power.
This is the only theory I've come up with since I feel that such practices are wrong and so only stand back and observe.
2006-07-20 03:36:12
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answered by Cassie 3
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Why do people have sex in cars in parks?? The idea of getting caught thrills people. They get gratification from it. Married men are dangerous. When they leave thier wife or the wife finds out about it it is no longer fun bacause the danger is gone.
2006-07-20 03:36:24
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answered by sarah a 3
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I think the idea that a man is willing to risk everything to steal time with them is both a turn-on and an empowering thought - "I must be something special if this guy is willing to risk his marriage, his finances, and the opinion of friends and family just to be with me." I would imagine that can be a pretty intoxicating feeling.
2006-07-20 04:22:45
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answered by digitalrancher 2
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I don't know. Ever since I've been married, I've had a lot of females that try to get with me. Before I got married, no one even paid attention to me.
Maybe it's a territorial type thing.
2006-07-20 03:36:23
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answered by casey_leftwich 5
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The women aren't looking for commitment. They are looking for sex, a sugar daddy, or just companionship without the worry of paying for a lawyer when it ends.
2006-07-20 03:36:36
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answered by csucdartgirl 7
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They are exercising their female superpowers and making sure the equipment is in working order.
2006-07-20 03:38:25
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answered by acmeraven 7
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it's the fact that they are unattainable because they fear committting. Also, because they have such low self esteem that they dont believe they deserve unconditional love.
2006-07-20 03:42:38
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answered by empowered2008 3
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it goes the other way too, mama. why do women do it?
2006-07-20 03:37:13
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answered by zoo2626 4
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