2006-07-20 03:26:42 · 31 answers · asked by kir 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
There are a lot of really good answers on here. I have nothing to add except I hope you listen to them.
Middle school boys only have one thing on their mind. Trust us, we have been there.
2006-07-20 21:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by reteach007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize that those girls in videos are all primped up and pushed up and fixed up with "stage" makeup and in reality if you touched their faces.. the goop would come off on your fingers? It's a machine to sell more stuff to make the manufacturers rich at your expense. What I'm saying hun is if you buy into that "sexy" bull now, you'll be giving away your hard earned cash all your life in persuit of something that you already have.
Youth is sexy... middle age is sexy.. old age is sexy.
Sexy is inside you.. when you are old enough to feel it. Until that day happens.. go just like you. Go clean and fresh... wash your hair so it smells good. There is nothing more attractive than a young girl who is squeeky clean and has some control over herself.
Let me tell you a wee story.
My son is now 22 and in second year university and will be an engineer. He met a young lady recently. She's 20 and lives at home with her mother and dad and twin sisters. She's working her way through college.
He has dated a lot of girls but this one, he says, he hopes he can hang onto. She's perfect. She is tough on the outside and puts up with no foolishness from guys. She was never "easy" and didn't care what others were about.
He told me yesterday that he dated a lot of girls who's only focus was to be sexy. He said he knew what the possibilities were, in terms of girls but didn't believe there would every be one for him. It's hard to find girls who are focused on family and school and not all self centred and trying too hard to be sexy by wearing provocative clothes. He is really head over heals for this girl.
Like I've always said, if a girls presents as trashy and easy the boys will pay attention until they get what they want and then throw her away.. but if a girl presents as serious relationship, intelligent, marriage material then the boys will want to that from her.
So you get to decide now.. if you want to attract boys, be used and thrown away or attract boys who have a head on their shoulders and will appreciate you for the beauty you are with our without all the goop and flash.. you get to call it hun.
2006-07-20 03:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by whatsit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will want to wear something that is not showing too much cleavage, but not covering up a whole lot. Actually its a matter of being cute and sexy, but not too sexy that you are concidered a s*ut. Or that you get in trouble by teachers. Just find something you really like. Remember, it JR High, nobody really cares until High School.
2006-07-20 03:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by iluvu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexy in Junior High!?!?!?!?
You've got to be kidding!!???
It is IMPOSSIBLE for a 12 - 13 year old to be sexy. Sorry - that's just a straight up fact.
You are WAY TOO YOUNG to be thinking about being sexy. The only reason why a girl wants to look sexy at a young age is because she thinks that this will get her liked and noticed by boys. But TRUST me when I say that you will not only end up with a sleazy reputation but you could end up with boy trouble that you DO NOT want to deal with yet.
Enjoy being YOUR AGE - and you can still dress cute and awesome without being sexy. You have your entire LIFE to be sexy - wait a few more years.
2006-07-20 03:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by The Lizard Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In junior high you should not be wearing sexy outfits, you should be attracting boys with your personality and getting good grades!
2006-07-20 03:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Luveniar♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to dress sexy to attract boys. Boys, just by their nature are attracted to just about anything that has body heat. Go for a well groomed, well put together look and avoid being labeled as easy.
2006-07-20 03:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin', you don't need a sexy outfit for hr, high, you are a beautiful, young lady whether you are wearing a skimpy bikini or a jogging suit. Beauty comes from within. You don't need to show off your body wearing almost nothing. If the young men you're trying to impress can't see that, they aren't worth the time of day. Don't try changing yourself for them. They should like you for who you are, not what you look like. Keep your chin up sweetie.
2006-07-20 03:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by disabled_59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexy outfit and jr high school dont' go together. you're too young to be dressing sexy for boys. try to focus on school work.
2006-07-20 03:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by islandgrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to dress sexy to attract boys, because they're only going to want you for what you appear, and that would be cheap. Attract boys with your personality and charm. You're too young to be dressing sexy anyway, you're in middle school! Wait to you're grown to be sexy, cherish your childhood!
2006-07-20 03:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Karmie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you don't need worry about dressing sexy to attract a guy no matter what age you are. Being yourself and having confidence in yourself is most important. If you are comfortable with you, other people will notice that and will be attracted to you no matter what you. Don't make yourself uncomfortable for no one. Genually love yourself and people will love you too. Dress for yourself not for people.
2006-07-20 03:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by tamara22084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being yourself? Why put up a front to attract and impress boys? You want a boy to like you for your outfit or for the person that you are? Don't be shallow
2006-07-20 03:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋