ok i went out with this guy yesterday and there was this girl who liked him alot and went out with him before and i think she thinks that he is still hers and now she wants to kick my a$$ for me going out with him !!! then she had her friend tell me that i broke her heart and i was a dumb bit** and i told her she betta leave the f*ck alone cause i dont need no man woman tellin me what to do !! she freaked out and told the girl who wants to kick my a$$ about it and now i cant even look and my bf or hug him or even give him a little kiss with out her trying to come and woop me !! and im really good fighter i grew up with older brothers who usted to beat me up all the time and i would fight back to they tought me how to fight should i just hull of and punch her cause there is really no way i can sit her down and talk to her nicely about cause she already thretand me about breakin up with him !! and i aint going to do dat! what do u think i should do ?!?!?
2006-07-20 03:23:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
fighting is juvenile and stupid. the guy needs to take care of the situation and explain to the other girl that he wants to date you. if he can't get it through to her, then dump him. no guy is worth fighting over.
2006-07-20 03:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by kc_brig 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She obviously feels she can scare you into giving up this guy! Let her throw the first punch! Then totally kick her butt! As long as she throws the first punch your punches are all self defense!!!! You cannot get arrested or even suspended from school if you are only defending yourself!!!! Let hwer know u will stand up to her and for your man! She is obviously really hurting over the break up or it wouldnmt bother her the way it is! BUT she shouldnt be blaming you for her screw ups!!! Stand up to her and dont let her bully you!!! Kick that butt! I dont normally like fighting but sometimes the other person will only listen to a smack upside the head!!!
2006-07-20 05:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with immature young women and an immature young man. Tell him that until HE takes care of this problem HE has, that you will not be bothered with him. That's not letting them win it's seeing if he is going to handle HIS business, because it really is his problem that he has bought you into. Show how mature you are by stepping back and letting HIM handle it. If he doesn't you will graduate from this thing into baby momma drama. You have more about yourself than to settle for this kind of life, right?
2006-07-20 03:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Gloria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and go to another boy friend to make your real boy friend jealous. He will come back to you looking for you and you can teach that girl a valuable lesson. Alternatively, you can also fight it out if you are good fighter. Good luck.
2006-07-20 03:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by tnkumar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mature side of me says.....be a lady and talk to her....fighting will get you no where.....and is she really risking getting in trouble over. The immature side says kick her butt....and knock some sense into her......It's your choice.....Just think of your consequences....oh yeah...and is the guy really worth it?
2006-07-20 03:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by jojodaqtpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah, it sounds like she is beyond talking to. people need to start being held accountable for their actions, so the next time she gets all up in your face, you might hafta go ahead and spank dat @$$ real good and show her thats what she gets for messin wit grown folks!!!!!
2006-07-20 03:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by queenreignsupreem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's jealous. if you tell your boyfriend, ya never know, he might want to take you in front of those girls and kiss you, just to rub it in there faces. fighting over a guy is stupid, especially since he's already yours.
2006-07-20 04:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want. He is your boyfriend. If she wants to start a fight because you hold your boyfriends hand then let her, you sound like you can handle yourself
2006-07-20 03:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep hugging him and stuff then if she wants to do somthin about help her god. just let her throw the first punch
2006-07-20 07:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by steven b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf about it, he kinda started it anyway. so tell him to talk to her.
2006-07-20 07:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly♥ [turn.n.burn] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋