i love this boy i have been with him forever and my dad barely lets me see him it's hard on me and my b/f i cant stand to be wirhout him i hate it here anyways
2006-07-20 03:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you don't say how old you are and I find it hard to believe you've been with him forever. Your father is probably setting some ground rules that you just need to respect and get used to. It will get easier.
2006-07-20 03:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you want to go to Moms is because you think Mom will let you do as you please. Who did you live with before you moved in with your Dad? If it was your Mom, why did you leave her for your Dads house? Have you ever thought of what you "bouncing" back and forth is doing to their feelings and lives? I know I sound mean but you have to start thinking of people OTHER than yourself. If your old enough for a b/f, your old enough to take some responsibility.
2006-07-20 10:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by fade4pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brea, you are at a very tender age of trying to discover who you are. That usually results in rebellion in any and all forms. Whatever your parents do is not going to satisfy you. So perhaps at this point speak with your mom, and get her opinion on this matter.
Just because your folks are divorced doesnt mean their love for you has diminished. They want only for you to be happy and safe. And their judgement is usually more experienced than yours may be. So please try to understand where they're coming from and keep the lines of communication open between all of you!
2006-07-20 10:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether your father is so bad. Whether he hates you. Why can't you try to bring your Mom & Dad together again. What is his mistake. Whether your mother is right and your Dad is wrong?
Till you are dependent on your Dad, for your daily expenses, you cannot wag your tail. If you are capable of looking after you, if you have enough money to spend for your comfort without taking financial help from your Dad, you can leave him to his destiny, any time. Whether you are capable of looking after your mother?
Everybody is interested in themselves, nobody is interested in others. If you are very particular to meet your boy friend, leave both your parents. It is not correct to adopt partiality between your Mom and Dad.
2006-07-20 10:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to respect the ground rules.that you're dad is setting for you.I know that you may not want to.But in the long run it will make you liveing there a lot easyer.On you and for him.good luck and hang in there.
2006-07-20 10:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to tough it out. Enjoy the times you do get tosee him.
2006-07-20 10:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU == IF YOU ARE CLOSE TO SAY ABOUT 15 OR 16 CALL YOUR LOCAL DEPARTMENT OF SOCIAL SERVICES == CALL TEH LOCAL LAW ENFORCEMENT TO GET THE NUMBER IF NEED TO
2006-07-20 11:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋