I have become good friends with this girl this summer because we live close by and we have done a lot of things together. We have not been romantic at all. We are both roughly the same age 14-15. Anyway we have talked about our bodies and how curious we are and she mentioned that we could always show each other a little. She also said that she didn't want to do anything but she wants to touch me and make my ......... get ......... First let me say, OF COURSE I WANT TO, but........ a couple of questions. First one is, I have never heard of a girl WANTING to see a guy's ....... and touch it and make it ........ is she wierd to feel that way or have other girls her age done /wanted to do that? Secondly, I have never heard of a girl (not a girlfriend) that would be willing to get naked and let a guy (that is just a friend) touch her. Is that something that is normal for girls her age? Also, I want to do this but need some courage....any help?
2006-07-20 03:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
well, she certainly isn't shy. she's probably just curious as you are. but just be careful cuz it may lead to more than just touching.
2006-07-20 03:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by islandgrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's normal. you both are. she's a bit bold for her age but believe me she's not the first girl at her age to have these feelings and she won't be the last!. be careful though. it's like opening Pandora's box. once you start with touching, make sure you hold on to some control over the situation. (at your age that is so difficult! actually; at any age!! lol!!) touching can lead to more. in the heat of the moment it's very easy to lose yourself and push on and experiment with more. you said she's not shy and is very willing to be with you. so going further might not be a really foreign idea. try to be responsible. you're both young and in this day and age going further seems to be more and more common. but you sound like a smart kid. i'm sure you'll be fine.
2006-07-20 03:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so.... It is normal to be curious.... but often girls who want to do that are warped in their thinking about love and sex; they may not have too much respect for themselves if they're willing to show themselves to just a "friend."
Anyways, if you're not romantically interested in each other, you may want to stay away from those boundaries. There's also the possibility that it may go too far and escalate into something else. Believe me, kids your age aren't ready for "something else."
And I'm not sure your parents would be so happy with what you're talking about...
Me, I'd suggest you don't do it.
2006-07-20 03:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by ATWolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes it's normal for a girl to want to see, and natural for her to be curious about what it does
2. She's curious, and she feels comfortable with you. That could be reason enough for her, or maybe she's trying to encourage you to ask her out.
3. If she's ok with it, proceed slowly and back off if needed. But go slow, stay within boundaries that are ok with both of you, and play safe.
2006-07-20 03:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Diane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! something must be wrong with her. like maybe she was raped or something as a child. I dont think thats normal, i mean sure we want to do stuff but, ive never heard of something like that. only show her if shes the one and only. save it for your one and only. dont let your hormones take over!! She has some physical deires that are not so normal... dont touch her and dont let her touch you. she might have some problem with her and girls like that often have done stuff like that before... and she could have that one disease.... really, dont do it. save it for the one you truly love. dont let your testosterone get to your head!!
2006-07-20 03:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by dont_break_myheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! You are at a prime age! Everything is still fresh and un-used! I certainly am not going to tell you to have sex at your age...however letting a girl get you off by other means is ok. (well not as bad at least). It is way normal for her to want to do those things to you, she is attracted to you and feels very comfortable around you, take it as a compliment!! I say go for it...
2006-07-20 03:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by lethalseduction85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both very normal curious teens. But no matter how much self control you think you may have, there is a point where you lose that and cannot help yourself. Proceed with extreme caution!
2006-07-20 03:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are at that age of experimentation and learning about yourselves and wanting to learn more about the opposite sex. I strongly suggest you two have some level of committment to each other first. I don't think either of you are ready for such casual encounters. Especially if it is so new for the two of you. Be prepared to protect yourselves because sometimes one thing leads to another. Please be careful. I so worry about all of you young people out!
2006-07-20 03:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, a little young for this aren't we, at that age that would definately make you more than just friends, hello.
and yes, hormones are crazy at that age, most people just dont act on the impulses.
2006-07-20 03:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal, you both have hormones, just be carefull, you might come into trouble with all sort of things!
2006-07-20 03:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by kiets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋