wHY ARE KIDS SO CRUEL TOWARDS SOME CHILDERN? wORDS CAN HURT. i'M DOING SOUL SEARCHING AND ALOT OF THINGS TO FILTER THOUGH. WITH THE HELP OF A THEAPIST. i NEVER FELT UNDERSTOOD.. I HAVE HAD ALOT SPRESSED AND NEVER DEALT WITH WHAT OR WHY i FELT AS i DID. I AM FEELING MUCH BETTER NOW, I HAVE A WAY TO GO BUT, HAS ANY ONE ELSE HAD TO DEAL WITH BEING MISUNDERSTOOD AND FELT REJECTED. JUST WONDERED ?
2006-07-20 02:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, words can hurt-sometimes more than actions. I think that some kids are cruel b/c they too feel misunderstood. Most kids (some adults even do it) b/c they don't feel good about themselves & want everyone else to feel the way they do so they don't feel so alone.
2006-07-20 02:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
I was really boney as a kid. Lots of thick hair....and not too cute. Kids were mean and yes it hurt me. My mom moved me from school to school and I never made good friends. I go on myspace and see that they all still keep in touch and it hurts me that I have no good friends like that....just people I know and work with. I understand how you feel...and some people just don't raise thier kids right. For me...that time is over though, I have a family and my own kid that I can help mold into a great person, and not like the people who hurt me when I was little. So...moral is, you can't change that, but you could always help mentor or mold a child to be better then that...it's my therapy. Maybe it could be yours.
2006-07-20 09:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us are subjected to some level of being misunderstood, unwelcomed or an outsider and it does make one feel rejected..some cases are worse than others ..some have more of a problem dealing with this than others, having self confidence and a good friend or two seems to make this difficulty much easier to deal with..good luck.
2006-07-20 09:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure what person doesn't feel misunderstood and or confused at one point in time its very normal trust with a little more help you'll learn hom to coop with the sepressed stress just keep your head up
2006-07-20 09:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl2k345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are cruel because they are immature. I was bullied almost the whole time I was in school for being nerdy. Let go of the past and move on with your life.
2006-07-20 09:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Si 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you've hit caps lock instead of shift there.
2006-07-20 09:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by well_clever_i_am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame the guardiance..................no one should hurt anyones feelings............no matter if its human or even animals..........
Be nice,polite,caring,kind......etc.............it doesn't hurt to be like that...................it feels wonderful to be a nice person.......Everyone should understand this.................
Good Luck!!!
2006-07-20 09:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋