I am just curious what it feels like to be suckered in to a relationship where you have to buy things like flowers, jewelry, chocolates, etc etc in exchange for your wife to have sex with you? Cause basically that is al marriage is nowadays. I have never been married (thank god). But I just wanted to hear from someone who is married what it feels like to be a sap. I am not married but I have thing for married women. Lonely, unattended housewives who have been neglected by their husbands. So tell me your stories.
2006-07-20 02:03:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Funny...I seem to have a thing for married men.
2006-07-20 02:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by ChiLuvR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm not a guy but I can tell you in any relationship you have to give and take. Husbands do those things because they WANT to do them and it makes their wives happy. Since you're not married, you really don't have any experience with women to go by. All you want to do is go after someone elses wife. Not all housewives are "lonely and unattended or neglected." BUT alot of them have husbands who own guns and you might just find one up your a$$ while you're playing with another man's woman. The price of marriage is commitment; the gift is mutual respect and you have to have respect for yourself first; which, obviously, you have none. You're like a dog sniffing around for bits and crumbs that fall from the table. That's my story and I'm sticking to it! Good luck, Mutt.
2006-07-20 09:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very narrow and cynical view of marriage. But I can see how some would see things that way. Some women are very much like that.
I married my wife because she isn't that way. In fact I often find that she is totally uninterested in the typical trappings of "romance". Chocolates, flowers and gifts are not her thing. When she does get gifts they are usually more personal and almost always unexpected (except at xmas and her birthday of course). She likewise often surprises me with gifts like CD's, tickets to concerts and even guitar accessories and a completely new sound system when my old one broke down.
The thing about my marriage that makes it different from most though is that my wife and I are friends first and married second. We became lovers because she was my best friend and happened to be a very attractive woman. We've stayed best friends through 6 years of marriage, 12 years of being together, 2 children and innumerable life experiences I wouldn't trade for the world.
Marriage can be a sham. But it doesn't have to be.
2006-07-20 09:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by jjbeard926 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really not sure what to say to you. My husband and I have a wonderful sex life without the flowers, jewelry, chocolates, etc. I think you are just barking up the wrong trees and that you enjoy being a jigalo or player maybe someday you will find the right person.
2006-07-20 09:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by UOPHXstudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where did you get the idea you have to be suckered into buying gifts for your wife just to have sex?
Your 'thing" for married women will get you into some serious hot water someday. Mark my words. Then you'll end up paying. Hopefully child support and not with your life from some irate husband.
2006-07-20 09:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would say I am buysexual. I do have to pay for it from my wife but not with flowers or anything like that. The only thing I have to do is be with her, tell her I love her, hug, touch, nice romantic kiss. That, I do believe that is allot cheaper than what you have to pay for sex. Am I wrong? I was single once with allot of money. Now I am married with not a dime to my name but I have more sex now than ever. Try getting married, you save a sh*t load of money.
2006-07-20 09:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never will be married either lonely boy. Cause your the ugly kid, with the small penis who can't get a girl. Keep on spanking the monkey little boy, Pamela Hand is the only woman you can get.
2006-07-20 09:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't know what marriage is! You do things for your partner because you LOVE them and WANT to make them happy, not because you have to or you won't get any.
I think you need to see someone about your commitment issues. Marriage is a good thing if do it for the right reasons!
2006-07-20 09:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~*~*Jenny Anne~*~*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet that there are a lot of husbands out there, who after reading your statements, are going to be a lot more attentive to the wives if they seriously care about them!
2006-07-20 09:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I do not have to any of that to get sex, my wife is loving and appreciative, and all i hgave to do is ask.
Maybe there is something wrong with her, try talking to her about it
2006-07-20 09:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋