Has anyone here ever purposely stopped their birth control without telling their partner in order to get pregnant?
2006-07-20 01:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by favteacher 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
certainly not i- but i know someone who did... it didn't work out the way she wanted. now she is a single mom raising her daughter. its a deplorable way of entrapment. lying about taking birth control is low and horribly devious
2006-07-20 01:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by acrossfiveyears 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't, never would.
It's not only unforgiveable betrayal to a partner, it's crassly unfair to an innocent child.
No method is 100%, but trust between partners regarding agreed upon birth control is not breachable if the relationship is to thrive.
2006-07-20 08:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is cruel. You should always make sure the baby is wanted by both partners. Do you really want you childs father to run off and leave you? Babys are hard work and both parents should be equally involved. Lying is never a good thing to do and it could come back to haunt you.
2006-07-20 09:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, but it's definitely not the best way to go. Partner of the person who wants to do that may actually get so mad that he could just leave her and her unborn child.
2006-07-20 08:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by joanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do it but it is very wrong. going off of birth control is a three person decision. The man, the woman, and her doctor have to discuss it.
2006-07-20 08:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. I wouldn't do that to any partner of mine. I want a baby, but I want that baby's father to be willing and dedicated to both me and our children, not cheated into it! Yuck!
2006-07-20 08:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't and I think that it's just plain wrong to do that to someone. What if the guy isn't ready and he leaves you? That's asking for trouble if you ask me.
2006-07-20 08:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that is so wrong. There are enough unwanted children out there, who aren't properly cared for.
2006-07-20 08:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by sassssy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's mean to do. But I'm sure there are women out there that have.
2006-07-20 08:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is entrapment, and to be honest, he could probably fight for custody and win on those grounds if hes interested...
2006-07-20 08:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋