I was good friends with him last year at Camp Calumet, but this year he really changed. He was obsessed with the song "Hips Don't Lie", went to the dance with a giggly girl who he didn't even know until she asked him, and was really immature! Now, we're back home, and we've been talking on AIM, but we got in two fights, both because he was being a jerk. 1st- he said I was a slow typer, and I pointed out that I had to type this huge paragraph, and he said he didn't care, 2nd- I tried to appologize, and he threatened to block me, and when I asked why, he said "cuz I feel like it". I don't want to lose the friendship we once had. What do I do? (did I mention I can't stop talking to him, cuz he has the screen name of someone I need to talk to, and I need to ask him for it?)
2006-07-20 00:49:48 · 10 answers · asked by lalalolipop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Put some distance between he and you. And by the way that song you mentioned is a real crap, I am latin and I hate it.
If you can't stop talking to him because it is convenient for you, don't stop talking to him but treat him as he were someone you know from the class room but it is not the big deal for you but you are kind at him. Treat him with cortesy but put him in a level of not very important friend, but this is for you, don't tell to him.
2006-07-20 00:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone like this is not worth ur time and effort-not that i'm to say but for the benefit of the doubt-the way things sound. I know people do change and change dramatically-I've seen it happen and it's sad when someone is being igorentt and rude and simply out rite lets say-"stupid". Maybe he needs space and time-how long that space n'time be-couldn't tell ya. I think thats when it's ur turn to stand up, leave him be if u can and want-keep him on ur list just because of a contact ya need through him, speak to him only when he wants to with you, or instantmessage pardon me- maybe he'll realize how he's being.Depending on his age, young as in under 19 or older as in over 20+years he'll understand his actions and why you may be getting flustterd and fustrated with him and he'll maybe come to terms and acknowledge his behavior; or at leat realize how he's coming off towards you. I know giving someone space and backing off is tough when he probably means alot to you and chances u have a bit of history together by the sounds of things. All goodthings take time-time is the essence of the day and everyone after that too. An in time things change people change, hopefully for the better, -but not all the time, and ya never know when someone will come around to try to be a better person and maybe try to pick up where things once were -when things were going good. All the best to you, goodluck
2006-07-20 08:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by angieco44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO, you're basically using the poor guy? I can't judge I've been there. I think he is just experiencing some hormonal changes and imbalances due to increased testosterone. A lot of guys go through thi. all you can do is wait it out. I think the song "Hips don't lie" is really lame. Shakira is losing her touch but America is to caught up with her prervious fame to realize how stupid the song is. NEway, Right now your friend is curious, confused, erational and emotionally unstable. Not to mention unpredictable. I woudn't worry so much though. Find a hobby and just be there when he needs you. buit don't spend your days pining away over him.
2006-07-20 07:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This so called "friend" of ours isnt acting very nice. Be nice and ask for the sn u need. After he gives it to you tell him something like, you have really changed and I mean i really still want to be your friend but your really starting to act like a jerk. And see what he says. If he says no ur the jerk, u gotta get rid of him. He seems to have changed and that happens. But if he cant respect you then just say fine this friendship is dunzo. and still keep in touch but just as "buddies" not friends. Because a friend would never treat a friend like that any day.
2006-07-20 08:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving this "friend" all of the power in the relationship. The more desperate you become for his friendship, the more he will abuse you by treating you badly. Good luck on getting the screen name out of him--if I were you, I'd find another way.
This "friend" needs to treat you like a friend or you should kick him to the curb. Tough love, baby. Good luck.
2006-07-20 08:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.he is a jerk and he treats you miserable,you don't have to apologize.he is very variable.his mood changes at a few min.now you are his friend and he cares about you and after 2 min he dosen't even remember you as his friend.Dude,do you have Alzheimer?because you act like you had:you have friend and care about her and after a few min you don't even remember her.you need a doctor.
2.If i were you i act with this guy like he treats you and get a new friend.i hope you understood my message.
Bianca
2006-07-20 08:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is being a jerk to you, ignore him and dont speak to him again until he has something nice and decent to say.
2006-07-20 07:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time to chill, and then if hes still a butt head kick him to the curb. nobody has to put up with someone Else's bad behavior....
2006-07-20 07:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by crickiscool7347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone for a while hell then come round
2006-07-20 07:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by percyhz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him hard on his BUTT
2006-07-20 07:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋