Is it difficult to live like an normal person ?

Question

I'm depressed ... Nothing is going rite to my life ... Too tired of doin' same thing and listenin' all pp said "You've to do your best. "
Sometimes I think I wasn't belong to this world ... I wanna die .. but is death the best way to put the end for all ?
I hate everybody .. I hate everything they've done ...
No1 shows me the way to live ... no1 leads me out the darkness ...

Answer 1

Get help NOW!! Go to your doctor and he will get you the help you so desperately need. Killing yourself is not the answer, it is a cowards way out. Please go to your doctor, he will not judge you and will be more than willing to help. Take care xx

Answer 2

I wouldn't know what a normal person was! There are many ways to be - Billions! You say nothing is going right in your life, but that can't be true. You can make a successful cup of instant coffee for instance? There will be many small things that you can do, that many people who are disabled cannot. Check them out, count 'em!
I know when you're depressed you feel very sorry for yourself and want someone to come to the rescue. Unfortunately, they don't usually know how, even if they're willing.
When you say you hate everybody, what you are really saying is "I hate myself". You CAN learn to love yourself. You could see a counsellor or join a peer counselling group. You have to start the process. Nice as it would be for someone to come along and take you by the hand, it's not going to happen. If you stop telling yourself that everything in your life is going wrong, things will start to change.Some people have lots of things go wrong in their lives and don't get depressed. That's because they don't let the problems squash them down, they always think, "Something's going to change" and it generally does. Put some glad thoughts into your life. Plato said depression was caused by wrong living. Maybe you are on the wrong track and need to re-think how you want to live your life? You could also try reading some poetry and if it moves you, have a good cry, that's very healing. Don't stay stuck down in the sadness though. Think about a happy time in your life to come back up.
Things will get better if you reach out and honestly, start the process.
Hugs and best wishes.

Answer 3

It's difficult to live, period. Not only do we have all these pressures from society that make it hard for us to feel good about ourselves, we also have to battle deadly viruses and bacteria and predators trying to kill us all the time, not to mention many mental illnesses.

Don't kill yourself. One of the most true things I've ever heard was from a psychologist, he said, "Suicide is a permanent problem to a temporary solution." It's very much true because I have been depressed pretty much forever, but it gets better and then worse. But I'm glad I didn't kill myself back when I contemplated it back then.

If you have nothing to live for, that's the easiest way to turn your life around. Think about it. If there's no one holding you back and you hold nothing dear to you, then there's no reason why you can't just jump up and do whatever the hell you want. Think about what you want and how to get it.

Most importantly, find something to look forward to. Count down the days, the hours, the minutes until it happens. It could be happiness for you. It's like a light at the end of a dark tunnel. It seems so far away, but it's coming.

Answer 4

Take heart. Each day could bring the satisfaction you need in your life. Rise up and live, it is your gift. We all must do the most productive thing for ourselves and the most productive thing is number one to survive. The sun shines on everyone in life, you as well as me. The rain will fall upon all of us, including you and I. The moment of dispare ends and a new feeling comes, confident and joyful. Death is when it all ends, before then anything is possible, anything. That means good, productive; and joyful things and situations can sparkle around and inside you. Whatever has brought you to this, try very hard to let that go; I know it's not easy; you can do it though. Take yourself out of the darkness, I don't know you but I want you to live and be content; I'm there at the edge of the darkness myself; in my heart for your benefit. I'll hold a light for you to see, as has been done for me when the darkness overwhelmed my world. As I hope that you will one day do for another, you see were all in this together. Take heart, rise; you may find great help from many people that don't know you but care just the same. Consider going to the Doctor now, today; or if it's night where you are; to the hospital. They want you to flourish as well, this is the path out of the darkness. You want to be shown the way to live as well I see. Then I'd be honoured to pass along the secret to my staying joyful and not yielding to the darkness. Live each day free from the past without expectation of the future. It may sound too hard but it's really too easy for many folk to accept. Not you though, I've been in the darkness too, and I think you'll be able to grasp this concept as I have. It matters not what we do, it all about feeling content with ourselves in the moment. My friend I send you strength now in your hour of need and as you've reached out so do I, may kind winds carry you over this moment and gently place you down beyond.

Answer 5

I too have felt depressed. It runs in my family. If these feelings go on more than 2 or 3 weeks then u probably need meds to get your brain chemicals back to acting right. Maybe just for awhile. These brain chemicals must fire with a certain momentum and sometimes when it loses its rhythm we feel mood swings or utter despair. They are what make us feel like singing in the shower. I don't think that u want to die...u probably just don't want to live - like this. Well that is normal! For me the answer was seeking God. The bible is our instruction book. If you seek to be led out of darkness don't follow other people or u may end up in a ditch with them. To get out of the darkness you must go to the light. Other people will fail you but HE remains the same. I am not talking about some religion (I hate religion) or some mamby pamby Christian group...I mean a REAL relationship with our creator. God is in control even when we are not. You are important. God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Remember, an olive must be pressed- crushed even before it can emit those precious oils. Gold must be refined before it shines. You will not only come out of that darkness....but you will shine! Read the gospel of John in the new testement....what DO you have to lose?

Answer 6

It's hard to define normal. When we say, thats not normal, we mean its not like what we would do... But who says we are normal. Do what feels right for you. I think it maybe time for you to take responsibility for your life. That way, there is nobody to blame except yourself if things aren't good. I dont know hold old you are, or whether you are living with parents or on your own. It sounds like you aren't independent yet, and believe me most young people go through similar feelings to what you are experiencing. If you're caught between those stages, trust me, it will pass and it will get better. Try to have a more positive attitute and compare your situation with one that is worse ie your home comforts, availability of food clothes etc. because there are so many people in this world who have absolutely nothing for various reasons, and we don't have to look very far from home. It's all around us..... Think again about the quality of your life, how you can make it better. Good luck

Answer 7

You are here to do what GOD wants you to do. Please open your heart and see what you can do for yourself in a constructive manner. Don;t think of death. GOD alone has the power to take you away from where you are right now.
Be thankful that you have a sound mind. By doing and thinking positively you will have beautiful mind. Pray for those people who have wronged you. They, too have their own part to perform here on earth. Just be yourself. Be happy. Who knows, by the twist of luck, you will become the President of your country.

Be of good cheers always. If you want, you can get in touch with me an discuss the things that make your life miserable. I wish we can be good friends forever, too. I hope you don't mind.
Take care and PEACE BE WITH YOU. GOD BLESS US ALL.

Answer 8

I don't know if you are religious at all, but God put you on this earth for a reason, so you have purpose. Jesus said, "in this world you will have troubles, but I have conquered the world". Whatever troubles you think you have, there is always someone out there in worse shape. I wish that you would talk to a health professional, or to a priest, so that they may be able to help you.You can't handle this problem on your own. I will pray for you.

Answer 9

To live like a normal human you need to think firstly that you are human and secondly that you are normal. Once you realize that you are human, you will automatically realize that " to err is human" and you will forgive yourself and try again as "failure is the pillar of success". Every moment in life is challenge and comes with promise to erase blemishes of the past and prosperity in future. By opting for death we would be reducing the time allotted to us and the opportunities that could have been availed.

Answer 10

you have to lead yourself out of the darkness. you have to be responsible for your own life and your own happiness, i've been there. you have to change the things you don't like. if your family is messed up then you need to find a way to either fix the problems or distance yourself from them.
you can't expect other people to fix your life, they have their own lives to deal with.
you just need a better outlook. choose to be happy. think of all the people living in poverty, somehow they find the will to keep going and trying to have a better life. you probably don't have the biggest problems in the world.

Answer 11

Suicide is a selfish act... if you dont know how to deal with pain and disapointments well a lot of people also don't but they seek help... All you need is some motivation and good meaning in your life... try to find that to your family, friends and yourself.... LOVE yourself... Its the best thing you could ever do while you live...