Men how long do you last in bed?......Be honest.
Women how long does your man last?....Be honest.
I have a problem with 3 minute men. I want to know how common this really is.
Also....after you *** do you stay hard?
If not how long does it take to get hard again?
This is not a smart a ss question so no smart a ss answers please. Thank you in advance.
2006-07-20 00:42:06 · 29 answers · asked by Dream Bree 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
To Mollygog
Hello, if you are a smart as s then why did you answer? You must be a dumb *** as well. As far as hands and tongues.... if I wanted that I would have stayed with my ex girlfriend. I want d ick you dumb b itch.
2006-07-20 01:05:50 · update #1
Well, this is from a guy......the lasting part depends on person to person. It's also a catch-22 type of situation. Most women love alot of foreplay. However, with foreplay, the man will probably *** alot quicker when actual intercourse occurs due to the anticipation.
But if you move straight into sex, a man may last alot longer, but the foreplay part is missed, so someone may end up a bit disappointed.
Personally speaking, I usually play the radio and think of things like "hey, that's my song" to make myself last longer. But the downside of that is that if sex last's tooo long (over a couple of hours), I tend to get bored and lose interest.
2006-07-20 00:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man can last about 5 minutes to an hour or so. Honestly. It just all depends. If my bf doesn't have sex for a while then he cums quickly like in 5 minutes. If we have sex at night and then have sex the next morning he lasts long - say 20 mins to 30 mins maybe even longer. If we continuously have sex he lasts longer and longer. I've also noticed that if we have foreplay he cums quicker than when we don't have foreplay. After my bf cums he stays hard for about 3-5 minutes. Then it can take from half an hour to about 2-3 hours for him to get hard again.
There is no set time for men and their penises. It all depends.
I don't exactly time everything with my boyfriend and sex but those times are just complete guesses.
Oh and I've also noticed that when my boyfriend gets drunk or has alcohol in his system he takes long.
Hope i helped.
2006-07-20 01:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1stly I've never really set a stopwatch by the bed. 2ndly I'm assuming you mean during intercourse and not while being given head. If I'm conscious of how my climax is building I can back off on the tempo of the thrusts enough to have some control over if I ejaculate. With out knowing the exact time I'd estimate the longest period would be 8-10 minutes. i always seem to have an easier time controlling that ability the 2nd time in the love making.
A penis ring can also help to lengthen the time to ejaculation.
That leads to your 2nd question, no guy normally stays hard after ejacution. If he does hes probably on some form of pharmaceutical. The penis however does remain slightly engorged and can be restimulated. For me it depends on my partner and what she does but the shortest time between erections for would be around 20-30 mins
2006-07-20 17:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by pejon60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i last about an hour,but thats only cuz when i'm about to come i change positions or stop but if i didn't it would be about 15-20 minutes.if i stay inside my girlfriend i'm hard again in about a minute but if i pull out it takes about 5 or 10 minutes. From what I've read,3 minute men are very common though so if you want a guy who can last you're gonna just have to hope you get lucky with the next guy you find.
2006-07-20 03:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by SarcasticAnomaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer this...I'm a smart @$$
No, you don't need to know all those personal things. Just realize that, yes, it's quite a common problem. It can be solved with more foreplay for you, or afterplay, the man CAN learn more control, it's possible. Also you need to remember that intimacy does not HAVE to involve an erection. God gave men hands and tongues, teach yours how to use them. Just read your additional details..lol... perhaps your man is a little frightened to stay in bed too long. If you snuff the attitude, he is less likely run.
2006-07-20 00:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies...10 minutes to well over an hour. I have noticed the better shape I am in, the more endurance I have...ie, i don't get tired, etc. Also, the better shape i am in, the more fun i can have...i am happier and more comfortable and more relaxed w my body and so is she.
If you keep running into 3 minute men...I would say look for more endurance athletes...runners, swimmers, etc. The bodies are better than those who don't work out, they are more "in tune" with their body's responses and therefore able to time things better, and the fitness gives them a confidence and "easy/fun" attitude that makes it all the more enjoyable.
As far as recuperative time....I would say the same thing. Stay with fitness...keep away from the smokers and heavy drinkers. Find people who like and care for their bodies and are confident in themselves. Find people like that, and I am guessing you'll find pretty quick recuperative times too.
2006-07-20 04:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the guy, his skill level, his attraction to you, his maturity level, if he has had something to drink or not, his experience, etc.
I've had a boyfriend who lasted 45 seconds-2 minutes TOPS and I've had 45 minute boyfriends (I'm not a big fan of anything more than 45min to an hour, then it just starts to drag on)
Be patient and try to find a way to make him last longer (alcohol in the system helps, as do condoms) or find a man who can last...there are plenty out there.
Good luck!
2006-07-20 05:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nonna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually last 10-15 mins. If i had sex the previous night, i may take a little longer. After i ***, i usually stay hard for another 15-30 seconds.
2006-07-20 00:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by nokkers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With love making time is not a value when
care is taken to make your lover feel wonderful,
if someones time is too short then all they want
is to use you as a thing, not as a woman ...
The only time my lover & i had quickies was
when she would be putting on her make-up,
or fixing something in the kitchen or on the potty,
otherwise we took our time for embracing each others
bodies ..... I have NEVER made love to a woman
in the minute range, a quick fix was only within
her need to want me at that particular moment
no matter what she was doing ......
We use to make love all day long, after sex
we would massage each others body all over
from feet to head and before we knew it we were ready
again to embrace and dance with sexual desires ...
To bad the last embrace i had with her
was seeing her die in my arms ....
Be grateful of what you have and take care in
how you enjoy each others moment as two becoming
as one ....
2006-07-20 08:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long I last usually depends on the speed of the sex..if it's slow and sensual..I can go up to an hour...if it's just straight Fu*king..I can sometimes only last like 4 minutes. After I c*m..I start to go soft..I'd say after about 10 minutes I am ready to go again..and if I go again..I can last a really long time..Sooo...I'm Jason from Cincinnati.. You want to .....lol
2006-07-20 01:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by gooterscooby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋