What should I do?
2006-07-20 00:40:39 · 19 answers · asked by unusual 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
No. Just say no.
2006-07-20 00:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask your boss why he needs to come over to your house. If it's not work-related, tell him you don't like to mix business and your personal life and that it wouldn't be a good idea. Even if he says it is work related, tell him you'd rather take care of it at the office. Can't think of too many reasons why your new boss all of a sudden has to come over to your house... well, except one. What kind of work do you do? Is it something that requires you both to be out of the office a lot? That might be different. But as a rule, bosses don't come over to their employees homes to discuss work. After you refuse, start documenting everything that goes on at work. Keep a diary of each day, your work, what your boss assigns you. If he was seeking a personal relationship and is turned down, he might move to fire you. By documenting everything after that, you will be able to present a strong defense for wrongful firing if it comes to that. don't let him know you're documenting everything, of course.
2006-07-20 00:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are sorry and that you would like to talk in the office if it is some business matter.If he is just coming over for nothing tell him sorry and invite him later when yur husband is home and ask him to excuse you because your husband does not prefer this.
p.s - you instead of asking us should ring up your husband u know
2006-07-20 00:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by sana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband when you both can go to your manager's home for a dinner, tell him that he invited "us" don't want to give him jeolousy for nothing.
Tell your boss: "My husband and I would be honored to go, but I'm going to have to postpone untill 'date' because my husband is unavailable" Boss asks you where is he, say that he has a line of meeting, don't say he's not in town.
2006-07-20 00:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by T-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether you would like him to come over or not. But if you are asking this, then I presume that you want to refuse him.
If you refuse him, chances are that he might not favour you much in the office environment.
If you would like to have a fling with him, invite him over.
Otherwise, tell him that whenever you are alone, you always stay overnight at your mom's or any close relatives home.
Don't get carried over by temptations or you might end up repenting it your entire life.
2006-07-20 00:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ronaldo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be totally innocent. It might be a practice to meet the family, although that is very unusual. I would be up front and tell him your husband was out of town and that you would love to have him "meet the family" when he returned.......
2006-07-20 00:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u r not at home at the time!!! and say that u have to do shopping or something at that time!!
OR
invite some of ur friends too to ur house!! when the time boss wanna come..
2006-07-20 04:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫♥ÇHÅTHÜ®ÏKÃ♥♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be faithful to your husband
just because the boss invites you over to his house doesn't mean he has bad intentions though
2006-07-20 00:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up an excuse - your seeing a friend, washing your hair etc. I know it's a little white lie, but you can spurn any unwelcome advantages without causing offense at your work.
2006-07-20 00:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by lagunium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he want to go to your house? are you having a party or having a work related meeting? if neither, just say no. whatever he has to tell you, he can do it at work.
if it's work related, have it somewhere else. your house is not an extension of your work place
2006-07-20 04:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,tell him any excuse and you yourself invite him when your husband is at home or you both(you and hubby) can go to his house at someother time.Or else discuss this with your husband
because you should not hide anything from you partner.And again if he bothers you you can straight away tell him to stop his nonsense things.Because women should not violate her own rights.
2006-07-20 00:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋