My wife of 6months is a Nymphomaniac-Thinks eats drinks sex.I use Viagara,she seems happy.How can i do better?

Question

I try my best.I work hard to plan a great sex,I also love it.She thinks i am a fantastic lover.I need to remain the best.Give me some practical or new ideas pl.

Answer 1

If she seems happy, then you're fine....until she complains that she's not......however, if she's not "satisfied".......why not suggest swinging? Good luck!!

Answer 2

If your wife thinks you are great then why ask the question maybe you need to realize 100% doesn't always happen and that Viagra is for a medical condition not to enhance. Besides after being married awhile your sex life will slow down so I would enjoy it while you have it. Try buying some books Dr. Ruth Westhymer has some really good ones and there are books that show hundreds of positions. Experimenting is always a great way to find a new enhancing position also.

Answer 3

Your wife sounds like me, I can't get enough, the more I have the more I want. Sounds like your wife is happy though, what are you worried about. Have a bit of fun always, make up new things to try to stimulate her, toys, hands films, the very resort is to try other getting involved, dangerous more.
Keep doing what you are doing. Would you approve your wife having a girl friend to help her out. I'm asking?

Answer 4

Try different toys, lotions, lubes and techniques. Discuss it first though so you don't risk freaking her out. Sex is best when it's sponteneous. Remember that and perhaps suprise her with a new position as well as a new location. Don't do it all at once though. take time trying new things.

Answer 5

Stay fit and healthy. Don't get fat. Men with more body fat do not produce as much testosterone. Keep up the fluids.

Umm, for the sex bit, try all the positions of the Karma Sutra. (Well maybe not all - I think some of them would exclude your wife - especially in the homosexual sections) :-)

Answer 6

I have a very dear friend who is the same way. She would have sex nonstop if she could. And yes, I love it.

Unless you are comfortable with a lifestyle some call "swinging," which can be a very big problem for many people but is perfectly effective for others, you need to find ways to make your wife happy with the frequency of sex you can endure. And you should ensure that she gets LOTS of approval from you for her attitude and raging libido - it will help her be happy with herself and maintain her desire for you over time.

If you are a younger man, usiging viagra especially may be a long-term health risk. While it certainly prolongs your performance ability and that is bound to make your wife very happy, don't come to rely on this drug. Instead, find other ways to prolong your lovemaking and her enjoyment.

In my friend's case, she's ready any time, any place. She loves public sex. I had to impose rules so that we would neither go to jail, expose kids to it, nor be generally offensive to others. But there are some asiles in Wal Mart I will never be able to pass again without immediately getting hard. I found that giving her satisfaction in this way helped contain her demands and let her build up for more later, knowing she was going to get lots of fun.

And waiting is absolutely a good tool with a partner who cannot ever wait. We play a game of waiting until she's practically crawling across busy intersections begging for relief. The resulting experience is intense and wonderful.

Another one we do is mutual masturbation. My friend actually keeps a buzzer egg - remotely controlled rather than one with a wire - inside all the time. As a result she is always wet, and often climaxes just while walking around. Then we will masturbate together for a prolonged time. She uses a number of toys - both vaginally and anally (anal makes her get off like a volcano) - and sometimes things like nipple weights and chains. She doesn't use such things to cause pain but for additional stimulation. This way hse gets off multiple times before we proceed to intercourse. And sometimes, when I am just tuckered out, this is a way for us both to enjoy a sexual experience together without me worrying about performance.

Recently she also invested in a motorized dildo - not just a vibrator, but a machine mounted on a frame. When she just can't wait any more, she will use that. She says that while not as satisfying as the real thing, it does feel very very good and it goes as long as she wishes. Sometimes she keeps it running inside all night -she said she really sleeps well that way.

I have been around when she uses it. It's pretty hot to watch, but we only tried intercourse once while she had the machine inserted. I used the other side. She loved the feeling of being completely filled, and climaxed nonstop the entire time, even blacking out as she did so for a while, but I didn't like it. Oh yeah, the worst is wonderful - but that relentless machine operating alongside was uncomfortable and risky for me.

We have a LOT of fun, and I am in better shape than ever before. This is great physical exercise. I don't worry too much about performance - after all, a woman who wants it all the time is delighted when she gets it. Make sure you take lots of vitamins, follow good health practices (avoid smoking and excess alcohol, for example), get some moderate exercise in general, and use your imagination. You can find all sorts of nifty stuff to read in bookstores or online for ideas about different things to do. One good location is www.literotica.com.

Oh, about pregnancy. Yes, some women experienced diminished libido on becoming pregnant. I think your wife will enjoy sex just as much while carrying as you will if the idea doesn't disturb you. Pregnant sex can be really great even if at times you have to be thoughtful about it. And I know that most women who love sex so much can hardly wait to start again after delivery.

You guys are going to spend a lot of time shopping for toys, cooking up new ideas about how to play and draw things out, and you should be glad. Have fun!

Answer 7

Hi dear questioner,
It is not that bad to have desire for sex. As you say your wife likes eat drink sex its not so. I feel are not understanding her desire.
You must try to understand her need & desire of having sex.Have you noticed her having ORGASM if not try better pose,try oral sex, try to know her points of stimulation and control your orgasm.
You will be able to satisfy both you and live long lasting relations
If you still dont understand then call me I may be able to give more specific sugestion to satisfy desires of your wife.

raju

Answer 8

You've only been married 6 months.. give it a year or so, and things are bound to wane...

As to keeping her happy, hmmm... you could buy her some "toys".

Answer 9

Sounds to me you have things under control. If you are getting tired, I sugest getting her pregnant. Once a woman has a baby they lose alot of their sex drive.

Answer 10

Either make her pregnant or join swingers club